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♀ 32807
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, June 9th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

does anyone know what a VAR is? How it is used and if it really works. also where to buy one?

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♀ 42654
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Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, June 10th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Voice activate recorder. I've never used one but have read posts where others have found proof when using them (cathing WS talking to OP in the car). I think you can get them at pretty much any electronics store I.e. Best Buy, Radio Shack etc.

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Dday #1 Oct 2007 (Porn for 2 yrs)
Dday #2 May 2013 (Porn for 5 more yrs))
Dday#3 May 2014 (finally admitted to drunk kissing OW in 1994: the 2nd drunken kiss with another woman during our M)
DD 22 and DS 18
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♀ 43530
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Default  Posted: 2:43 AM, June 10th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You can also get another kind that's a bit different. Mine was like a very small one way phone. So you buy a paid phone plan (based on time or days) for it and cell provider will install a SIM card. Then when you want audio, dial the number and it opens a phone line wherever it is placed so you can listen live.

Good luck.

When people show you who they really are, believe them - Maya Angelou

BW: 43 (me) WH: 42 (him)
DD-13, DS-11
DDay 1 = 1/13, DDay2 = 7/14 (False R), D 4/15

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