I think I've mentioned this on here before, but I'm fairly certain he's either gay or bisexual. He admitted some attraction to men right after DDay. Hello Kitty is a woman, but she is only friends with gay men and somehow works with a clothing business that caters to gay men. I suspect that this is how they met. His FB page is under a fake name and none if his real life friends or family are on it. So I think he feels safe "expressing" himself there.
There's really nothing to say other than it's so freaking confusing. WTH is he engaged to Hello Kitty? I honestly just wish he was gay and had a boyfriend. That I can understand and explain to the kids. I have no idea what is coming down the pipeline with this.
Who the hell was I married to?
me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
My gut feeling is that he's coming out of sorts and Hello Kitty is hand holding him through the process. I don't think she's smart enough to realize however, that once he completed this transition, he'll probably leave her in the dust.
I hope that one day we can have an honest conversation about whoever he is and discuss it with the kids. I'm not holding my breath though.
Finally reached indifference & looking forward to my new beginning
I know sexuality is complicated. I just don't know what to make of this. There were no signs of crossdressing at all in our marriage. However, him being gay wasn't really a shock to me. I felt like there were some red flags that pointed in that direction.
I just want him to get to wherever it is he's going to end up. It also makes me angry that he's going to enter another marriage with a woman when he obviously has all of these confusing feelings. However, she's stupid enough to go along with it.
I know my kids will be fine whatever happens. He will always be their father and as long as he keeps them safe, he can do what he wants. It was just really a blow to hear that though.
[This message edited by newlysingle at 9:26 AM, June 10th (Tuesday)]