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WarehouseGuy (original poster member #6037) posted at 11:04 AM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
Thanks for being here for all of us for the last 12 years.
Thank you for giving us a safe haven when our lives are turned upside down by infidelity.
You have helped 1'000's of people over the years and that is invaluable to all involved.
Keep up the good work!
MH and DS---I can't think of anything to say other than----YOU GUYS ROCK!!!!!!!
whg
If you see your ex with someone else don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:50 AM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
Wow, 12 years? You don't look a day over 11!
Happy birthday to the best site on the internet!
(((((((((((((((((MH and DS))))))))))))))))))
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 1:12 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
I know this site is a Safe haven for me and 1,000s of others. Thank you so much. I don't know if I would be where I am without your help.
Congratulations of 12 wonderful, inspirational years.
And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!
Myname ( member #23138) posted at 1:18 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
This place has been a total God send for me. Thank you so much for making this what it is.
DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 45
12-08-10: S
Divorced and moved on with my life.
Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 1:57 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
Happy Birthday! SI! You have brought comfort, wisdom and joy to those who sign up and post and those who lurk. Thank you!
Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 2:01 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 2:36 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
Thanks for all that MH & DS do - plus all the thousands of people who make this site what it is. The mods, guides, and members all make this a wonderful safe place.
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 3:05 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 3:20 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
Happy 12th birthday SI!!!! Enjoy it for if AN is in charge you'll turn 14 next year.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 4:13 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
Thanks for everything!!
(((MH&DS)))
Failure is success if we learn from it.
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 4:15 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
Thank you SI! Here's to many more!
abbycadabby ( member #27428) posted at 4:16 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
Happy Birthday!!! I'm SO glad SI is here.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 5:54 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014

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"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:43 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
Happy Birthday, SI!!!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 6:47 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
Happy Happy Happy Birthday!!!
This place is a real godsend. I've met some good friends here, gotten some really great advice and learned how to really look into myself and make some real changes to become a better person.
Thanks MH and DS for creating this place for us! And thanks to the Mods and Guides for all you do to help us all out and make this a safe place and a fun place to come to when we need support or friendship.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 7:35 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
NIK, I'm wondering if that's Hebrew on that pretty cake.
It's an SI Bat Mitzvah! Mazel Tov!!!
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
collateraldamage ( member #32546) posted at 9:11 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
Happy Birthday SI!!!
Me:BS (46) Him:WH (46)
Married 20 years/together 26
Two DS 16/14
DD#1 2/1994 (PA) DD#2 1997-2000?? several EA DD#3 2/17/2011 PA 6 months DD#4 7/13/2011 My Space Account (from 20007) looking for casual sex 10/17/2011 DD#1,000,000... new EA
WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 2:31 AM on Wednesday, June 11th, 2014
How lucky am I that I get to share a birthday with this amazing site!
Thanks so much to DS and MH!!! You two are so special. Your time and efforts are so appreciated.
Thanks to all of the mods and guides that keep this a safe place for everyone to work through their pain.
Thanks to all of the members that come here to both get and give support.
Four years ago I couldn't imagine coming to a site like this. Today I can't imagine ever leaving it.
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
KBeguile ( member #38348) posted at 3:13 AM on Wednesday, June 11th, 2014
Happy birthday, SI. You and your community have been a great lifesaver for me.
Me: WS 34
Her: BS 37 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 7yo
M: 9 years
DDays: 2012/11/14-2013/02/05, 2013/03/09, 2016/02/19
bbee ( member #17840) posted at 4:35 AM on Wednesday, June 11th, 2014
Y'all fucking saved my fucking life. I love you!
This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.
Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3
Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1
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