"I don't understand the world today I don't understand what she needs I gave her everything she threw it all away" tom petty
I've learned that my WW has to blame shift . She can't accept the person she is . She hold's on to the fact that our M was in trouble and uses this as a reason to make her self feel better about the choices she's made.
I now view my WW as a broken item that is trying to get fixed . I can help the process or I can stand back and let her do it on her own . Its up to us to decide .
Don't go together too well. How is she trying to "get fixed"?
If you don't mind...how do you see things progressing as the years move along?