My wife packed her things and left yesterday with our son who is 10. We have been married 14 years and were together 6 years before that. She cheated after 1 1/2 years of marriage. We got through it.
Then about 5 years ago I found out she had cheated again. thought we got through that she apologized and did the whole boohoo thing.
Then this past January I received a message from a mutual friend that my wife had confessed to his wife that she met a great guy and was gonna leave me for him.
I messed up instead of digging for information, I checked the guy out on facebook. then confronted her about him, she said he was just a friend, then two days later I went to look him up again on FB and he had blocked me from viewing his page and his wife's.
I have another alternate FB account I used it to message his wife what was happening, she never replied back but has since changed her FB name back to her madain name.
When I did check my wife's FB account all messages were deleted.
I got up one morning alittle earlier then normal and she was on the phone with him.
I gave her the ultimatum to stop all contact of get out.
Then this past Saturday her and my son were in bed watching TV I poked my head in to tell my son hi, and she tucked something behind the blanket , I asked her what she was hiding and it was her cell phone, I am assuming she was texting him, so I told my son his mom is seeing another man and she will probably be moving out.
Well Yesterday I got home from work and her stuff and my sons stuff was gone. My heart sank MY SON IS MY WORLD.
I got ahold of her on the phone and she told me I can see my son whenever I like but I did not want to be a weekend dad.
I feel like just letting her move the guy in so my son will be home we I get there but I know I can't do that. Me nor her can afford a Divorce at the moment, well unless her new guy has money which will mean I may get screwed twice. I am on the verge of having to file chapter 7 as it is.
Just refinanced the house to have more money for groceries and this happens.
I am sorry the post is so long I just needed to tell you guys/gals in hope for support my heart is bleeding right now.
I am a drinker usually 12 pack per night, I am not violent and do not do stuff to cause trouble I am a happy drunk but I think it is because of all her years of cheating. anyway last night I could only drink one beer because of the pain.
I will give her what money I can to support my son, I am worried is she files for divorce I might have to pay alimony AS well as child support.
again long rant sorry, and Thanks!
SAD DAD IN GEORGIA!
[This message edited by mbjr73 at 9:24 AM, June 10th (Tuesday)]