So dd(2) was in January. The OW was a co-worker. My H informed me that she was leaving the job in June to study for board exams. We both did not want a scandal from the A as we are both at risk if a scandal were to occur. We work in the same field and don't want to lose out jobs or endure the talk and embarrassment.
He has assured me that she would be gone from the office by June. Well it's June and she's still at work. I have asked my H to inquire when she is leaving or I would. He has avoided to ask her. He doesn't talk to her anymore and he only sees her once or twice a week when they are "scheduled" to work together.
My IC says I should confront her because he hasn't. I just don't want the scandal. I don't want to keep nagging my H about it. He is a huge avoider of controversy- he never likes to confront anyone. Help!
Any advice. This whole issue is stalling reconciliation. I'm so angry.
M 27 years
2 adult kids
OW co-worker age 30. (Ugh)
Dd 1- 2/13/10 dd-2 1/12/14 (ugh)