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User Topic: Weekend
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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, June 13th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


No big plans but my mom is here today for an apartment walk-through and it's supposed to be sunny all weekend. Hopefully lots of leisurely biking about in store!

What is everyone up to?

Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4324 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, June 13th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Interview today with an agency closer to home. IrishLad goes to his Dad's for the weekend. Homework, housework, the usual. The end of this quarter is nigh so I will be having some R&R time soon, I hope

Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1858 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
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Default  Posted: 11:04 AM, June 13th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Free tickets to the zoo tomorrow, if I can get up and out of the house before it hits triple digits.
Then possibly meeting up with friends and baking.

Sunday is Fatherís day, mixed feelings there so Iíll likely just catch up on laundry.

Happy Fatherís Day to all of you here!

ďHappiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.Ē ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3640 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
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Default  Posted: 11:22 AM, June 13th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Working all weekend. We have our wine bar open with live music scheduled every night, Friday through Sunday.


It's fun....but I haven't had a day off in 2 months.


BS: 58
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 7532 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
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Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, June 13th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Shopping for new work shoes because...YAY! I FINALLY GOT A JOB!
Going to see the movie "Chef." Having lunch with my 85 year old Dad, Mom and sibs on Father's Day.

Married 26 years
DDay #1 2/2002
DDay #2 6/2012
Gave him his second chance and he blew it.
Divorce final: 9/9/2014

It's hard to see the road ahead if you're always looking in the rear view mirror.

Posts: 714 | Registered: May 2007 | From: California
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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, June 13th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm off work today, so I'm power washing my house. I'm exhausted.

Tomorrow, I'll cut the grass and attend a surprise birthday party for a friend.

Sunday will be more working around the house.

Did I mention that I'm exhausted?

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 9177 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, June 13th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NEED to mow the lawn, but it is supposed to rain. Housework, some regular work, and getting ready to fly out late Sunday night for a week long business trip next week that will include a detour at the end for a brief visit with my father.

BS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - 2 adult DDs - DS20 Deceased
Happily divorced!

~Indifference - Because some people do not deserve your emotions.~

I edit often because my tablet is possessed!

Posts: 5081 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Land of Indifference
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, June 13th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Got some work to get done for my master's class.
Also NEED to mow the lawn...we'll see if I feel moved to fit that in...probably should get out in the garden and do some weeding...
Hanging out with brother this afternoon and watching some world cup games at the bar.
Finally starting to write that book...2 chapters in and looking to get another hammered out this weekend.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4962 | Registered: Jan 2012
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Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, June 13th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As little as possible this evening, I need to recover from my week and rest up for tomorrow.

I have my grandson (2.5) tomorrow. I'll take him shopping to get his daddy something for fathers day since his momma isn't up to it. Then we're planning to hang at the pool the rest of the day with my sister and my mother. The complex is throwing a pool party from 5-8 with free music, food and beer. Not that I'll drink any while in charge of an active toddler, but mom and sis will.

Oh, and it's moms 83rd birthday tomorrow!

It will take me most of Sunday to recover and do some housework before heading to my "Mindful Eating" group in the evening.

"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle

Posts: 1201 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Metro Atlanta
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, June 13th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm hanging out with my boys tonight.

Tomorrow, we're going to SO's parent's house to celebrate Father's Day with an early lunch. My mom's picking up the boys from there and keeping them over night. After that, I'm going to my bff's house to start off my bachelorette party. We've got the afternoon and evening planned with fun activities. I'm looking forward to hanging out with my girlfriends and family.

Sunday, only thing planned is going to my brother's house in the evening for Father's Day with my family. I'll probably go to church too.

Failure is success if we learn from it.

3 boys: 11, 9, and 1.

Posts: 4798 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 12:45 AM, June 14th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've had a very long, tiring week at work. Tonight was a late night for me because two of my key employees were out (one long-term) and I'm short by 1 1/2 staff. Ugh.

Now for the weekend

Tomorrow morning is yoga on the beach at a local state park, followed by a hike on the Taconic Crest Trail, where I hope to not get lost like I did last week I haven't decided about dinner, but I'm thinking of Chinese at a restaurant just over the border in Massachusetts.

Sunday morning I'm going birding again with the bird club. I may have to go into work for a while afterward. I have so much to do for the end of the fiscal quarter and a new employee starting on Monday. Oy!

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

Posts: 25302 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona
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Default  Posted: 7:22 AM, June 14th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My only plan for the weekend? Sleep in. Did I get to do that this morning? Nooooooo... Dang cats started the fun off at 4:30am followed half and hour later by the dog insisting it was time to get up. I'm going to send them all back to the rescue just so I can get some sleep in the mornings (not really, just a threat I use that goes totally ignored).


I'm done here; sick of 2 x 4s

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