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 simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 6:21 PM on Friday, June 13th, 2014

My kitty is the sweetest thing. I adopted her from the MSPCA, well more like she adopted me. I was walking around the cat area looking at all the kittens. I had settled on one cage when my husband (then boyfriend) said "Don't settle on one cage, look at all of them first." So I did. As I'm walking past one cage this cute little black and white kitty with double paws gripped the bar of the cage with one paw and grabbed the shoulder of my coat with the other paw. I picked her up and she crawled right onto my shoulder. She's been there ever since. She's my kitty.

18yrs later...

She has been going under DD7's bed a lot which is something she never does, ever. Then last night I noticed that she was walking rather stiff. This morning it was worse. She was under the bed all day. When she came out her hind feet slipped out from under her when she was in the kitchen. She takes a few steps and her hips and hind legs give out and she falls. You can tell she's making an effort to keep her legs working. I have a vet appointment for her tomorrow morning, we'll see what the vet says. We're all very worried about her. She walked around the office chair I'm sitting and she tipped into the wheels. She's now laying at my feet right now purring. She wants to be right with me. I'm afraid to move around too much because I don't want her to follow me and get hurt.

My poor kitty

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:26 PM on Friday, June 13th, 2014

Sending you healthy kitty mojo. (((((sd & kitty)))))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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 simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 6:34 PM on Friday, June 13th, 2014

Thank you NIK. I have her laying on my bed now. That way I can see her and she won't follow me around.

She's such a love, I don't know what I will do without her.

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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shiloe ( member #1224) posted at 6:36 PM on Friday, June 13th, 2014

SIMPLYDEVASTATED

OMG! Same thing recently happened to my cat.

Your kitty might have had a stroke like mine did.

Google "saddle thrombus in cats."

Usually there is a poor prognosis. Their hind quarters and legs can hurt them a lot and they will be vocal about it. Mine was.

Is your kitty still eating? That is a good sign.

My cat (older like your kitty) is very slowly making some progress over several weeks.

I had to take her food to her at first. Gradually her appetite increased. She sleeps in a box under my dining room table or under my bed (never used too).

I would take her out and make her walk back to her box several times a day, increasing the distance gradually.

She now gets up on her own and walks to the kitchen for her food. She gets up to use the litter box. She doesn't holler when I gently pick her up anymore.

Just like humans, the sooner the stroke is caught and they are given blood thinners, the better the out come.

Let me know what your vet thinks it is.

Good luck.

But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 58 Dday 03/2011
Cheater -58 Married 26 yrs
DD - 23 DD -21 DS-19
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA- new MCOW D-2/17

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 simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 6:47 PM on Friday, June 13th, 2014

Thank you so much Shiloe (Where did you come up with your screen name? My son is reading a book about a dog named Shiloe. Anywho...). I will look into that.

She isn't crying in pain, so that's a good sign, but you can tell it's bothering her. She's never been a big eater, mainly she licks the gravy from the wet food and leaves the rest for our other kitty. She had a bit of food this morning, but nothing else.

I will let you know what the vet says. I hope it's good news. I'm worried because of her age.

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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luvbug0915 ( member #22934) posted at 6:48 PM on Friday, June 13th, 2014

(((SD and kitty)))

I too am sending healthy kitty mojo. Keep us posted.

"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 6:50 PM on Friday, June 13th, 2014

(((sd and kitty)))

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 6:51 PM on Friday, June 13th, 2014

Oh how heartbreaking. I'm so sorry. (((SD and kitty)))

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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 simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 6:56 PM on Friday, June 13th, 2014

Thank you everyone! I will keep you all posted.

In my other thread I have a job interview coming up. The recruiter sent me a test message to make sure it went through and I responded late (what I felt was late) and I said "Sorry for the late response I was calling the vet for my cat." She responded and sent me a "get well soon kitty" image. That was so sweet of her.

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 7:12 PM on Friday, June 13th, 2014

(((SD & kitty)))

Poor sweet kitty. Sending mojo, hugs, and prayers.

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shiloe ( member #1224) posted at 9:07 PM on Friday, June 13th, 2014

Shiloe is the name of my horse, an old gelding I have had for along time.

But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 58 Dday 03/2011
Cheater -58 Married 26 yrs
DD - 23 DD -21 DS-19
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA- new MCOW D-2/17

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hexed ( member #19258) posted at 2:00 AM on Saturday, June 14th, 2014

(((simplydevestated kitty)))

i'm so sorry she's not doing well.

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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 simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 2:44 AM on Saturday, June 14th, 2014

That's an awesome name, Shiloe

Thank you, hexed.

She seems to be walking worse. I'm not sure if it's because it's at night. I don't know. She tried to walk to her water bowl and she had walk along the dinning room chairs otherwise she would have fallen over. Before I went to bed she looked like she was walking drunk. I saw her fall over a few times.

Her appointment is tomorrow. I hope the vet knows what's going on

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 3:06 AM on Saturday, June 14th, 2014

Has she recently had a wormer? If not DON'T do it!! I'm just asking because the wormer for roundworms can cause neurological effects.

[This message edited by ThoughtIKnewYa at 9:07 PM, June 13th (Friday)]

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 simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 3:18 AM on Saturday, June 14th, 2014

Not at all. She hasn't needed anything. She's very healthy.

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 3:58 AM on Saturday, June 14th, 2014

I'm hoping for the best for you and your kitty love. (((you and kitty)))

Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again

Staying together for the kids

D-day 2010

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 simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 11:22 AM on Saturday, June 14th, 2014

In a couple hours she's off to the vet. Hopefully I'll have good news to report.

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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happenedtome ( member #6042) posted at 11:38 AM on Saturday, June 14th, 2014

Hoping for good news from your vet, SD!

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 simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 12:37 PM on Saturday, June 14th, 2014

Thank you.

I watched her walk this morning and she started off fine. The more she walks the worse it gets. Ten minutes after I first saw her her legs started to give out and she almost fell.

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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 simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 3:27 PM on Saturday, June 14th, 2014

We're back.

Good news and bad news...

First the good. It's not life threatening and there's no cancer. From the look of the x-rays she's in perfect health for a kitty that's 18 (approximately 90 in cat years).

The bad news. Her spine is fusing together. The disc's as they get closer to the pelvis are fused and bright white according to the x-rays. Which is why she's walking wobbly and falling.

We started her on prednisone today. I gave her her first dose a few minutes ago. The vet wants me to give him a report in 10 days.

If that doesn't work then there's more aggressive treatment but then she'll have to have weekly blood work and monitor her kidneys and heart etc... so then the question of quality of life comes into play.

Lots to think about...

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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