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Topic: For the SI Dads

MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866

Posted: 9:54 AM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014

While infidelity has hit your marriage, you still have another closely associated relationship that can be tough to maintain, that of your kids. Your kids still need your love and attention. Continue to separate the pain from the infidelity from your role as the father to your children. Take joy in them. May you be able to celebrate today that precious relationship with your kids. Happy Father's Day.

AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

Posts: 53958 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation

Thinkingtoomuch
♀ 31765
Member # 31765

Posted: 10:44 AM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014

Yes! Although life has sent you difficulties, I'm thinking of all you Dads out there and thanking you for being there and celebrating all your hard work for your kids and making life better in so many ways for all of us.

Big hugs and enjoy a Happy Fathers' Day.

Posts: 849 | Registered: Apr 2011

deeplysad
♀ 16590
Member # 16590

Posted: 2:18 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014

Thinking of all the SI Dads today who are there for their children!! You are all an amazing bunch of men!!!

Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert

Posts: 3273 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif

still2suspicious
♀ 31722
Member # 31722

Posted: 4:05 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014

Happy Father's Day to all SI Dads.

You are truly examples of what good men are all about.

Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1349 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:

blakesteele
♂ 38044
Member # 38044

Posted: 7:06 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014

As a SI Dad....thanks for the kind words. They are food for my soul.

As a SI member.....thank you men! I follow many journeys closely. Most are bucking their FOO to rebuild and process through this pain. Their histories, including mine, is to give up and blame the other spouse for failed marriages.

Here's to being family tree changers!!!!!

God is with us all.

[This message edited by blakesteele at 7:28 PM, June 15th (Sunday)]

ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred.

Posts: 4472 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri

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