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MovingUpward (original poster member #14866) posted at 3:54 PM on Sunday, June 15th, 2014
While infidelity has hit your marriage, you still have another closely associated relationship that can be tough to maintain, that of your kids. Your kids still need your love and attention. Continue to separate the pain from the infidelity from your role as the father to your children. Take joy in them. May you be able to celebrate today that precious relationship with your kids. Happy Father's Day. 
Thinkingtoomuch ( member #31765) posted at 4:44 PM on Sunday, June 15th, 2014
Yes! Although life has sent you difficulties, I'm thinking of all you Dads out there and thanking you for being there and celebrating all your hard work for your kids and making life better in so many ways for all of us.
Big hugs and enjoy a Happy Fathers' Day.
deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 8:18 PM on Sunday, June 15th, 2014
Thinking of all the SI Dads today who are there for their children!! You are all an amazing bunch of men!!!
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 10:05 PM on Sunday, June 15th, 2014
Happy Father's Day to all SI Dads.
You are truly examples of what good men are all about.
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
blakesteele ( member #38044) posted at 1:06 AM on Monday, June 16th, 2014
As a SI Dad....thanks for the kind words. They are food for my soul.
As a SI member.....thank you men! I follow many journeys closely. Most are bucking their FOO to rebuild and process through this pain. Their histories, including mine, is to give up and blame the other spouse for failed marriages.
Here's to being family tree changers!!!!!
God is with us all.
[This message edited by blakesteele at 7:28 PM, June 15th (Sunday)]
ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred.
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