I have been trying to get my WH to talk with me. Whenever I start to ask questions he gets frustrated and asks me why I keep asking the same questions over and over? He says that he has already answered my question and doesn't know what else to tell me.
He says that I know everything and doesn't understand why we keep rehashing it. To be fair, my WH has never been one to discuss feelings. He grew up in a family where you just keep that kind of thing to yourself. So it is something we have always struggled with in our marriage...It is not just because of the cheating issue.
Any ideas how to lead WH to talk about issues without him feeling that he is being attacked. How do I make him understand that just because I know about it doesn't mean we just pretend it never happened?