"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
it seems that everyone is already separated or divorced rather than just trying to figure it out
Well, people who are already separated or divorced have already gone through the 'trying to figure it out' stage, right?
Imo, "BTDT advice" is pretty good.......
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.