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Topic: In a couple of hours
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WeepingBuddhist
♀ 39139
Member # 39139 |  Posted: 1:30 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014 |     |
I am going to meet a guy I met OLD. I'm in a tiny town and it turns out we know some of the same folks so I'm not worried about him being a serial killer. I'm more freaked out than I expected.
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
Posts: 735 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus |
courageous
♀ 34477
Member # 34477 | | Posted: 1:31 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Good luck! You will be fine 
Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012
My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.
Posts: 707 | Registered: Jan 2012 |
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866 | | Posted: 1:32 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Imagine him in his underwear. No wait, that is for public speaking.
Relax and enjoy the moment.
AKA Moo
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 53964 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 1:45 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Think of it as just a chance to get to know someone new. Relax and enjoy.
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28226 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 1:46 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
 I hope you have a wonderful time.
Posts: 38231 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
norabird
♀ 42092
Member # 42092 | | Posted: 1:56 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
If it's any comfort, in my experience the pre-meeting butterflies go away as soon as the date actually starts.
Have fun!
Sit. Feast on your life.
Posts: 4280 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC |
WeepingBuddhist
♀ 39139
Member # 39139 | | Posted: 2:02 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
It's not bad. On a scale of one to ten, I'd say I'm maybe a four. Worst case scenario, is he's a nice guy to have a beer with now and then. I think what's freaking me out is that I don't know what I would consider a best case scenario.
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
Posts: 735 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus |
tabitha95
♀ 22033
Member # 22033 | | Posted: 4:20 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Good luck. What I have discovered is the more worried I am about the date, the less I'm really thinking the guy and I are matches. The ones where I feel more comfortable going in, are the ones where I'm not feeling judged by them.
BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).
Posts: 3251 | Registered: Dec 2008 |
WeepingBuddhist
♀ 39139
Member # 39139 | | Posted: 8:47 AM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
All went well. We had a beer and both had to head back out to the country. We will meet again. Not sure if I even want anything other than a smart, funny (and super cute!!!) guy to have a beer with now and then. thanks for the good mojo!
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
Posts: 735 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus |
norabird
♀ 42092
Member # 42092 | | Posted: 9:10 AM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Nothing wrong with having a cute drinking buddy!
Sit. Feast on your life.
Posts: 4280 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC |
WeepingBuddhist
♀ 39139
Member # 39139 | | Posted: 9:37 AM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2014 | |
My thoughts exactly!
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
Posts: 735 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus |
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