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WeepingBuddhist (original poster member #39139) posted at 7:30 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014
I am going to meet a guy I met OLD. I'm in a tiny town and it turns out we know some of the same folks so I'm not worried about him being a serial killer. I'm more freaked out than I expected.
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
courageous ( member #34477) posted at 7:31 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014
Good luck! You will be fine 
Me: BW (in my 40's) Him: ExWH EA/PA with MOW coworker(also married). He ended up marrying his mistress.
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 7:32 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014
Imagine him in his underwear. No wait, that is for public speaking.
Relax and enjoy the moment.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 7:45 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014
Think of it as just a chance to get to know someone new. Relax and enjoy.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 7:46 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014
I hope you have a wonderful time.
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 7:56 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014
If it's any comfort, in my experience the pre-meeting butterflies go away as soon as the date actually starts.
Have fun!
WeepingBuddhist (original poster member #39139) posted at 8:02 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014
It's not bad. On a scale of one to ten, I'd say I'm maybe a four. Worst case scenario, is he's a nice guy to have a beer with now and then. I think what's freaking me out is that I don't know what I would consider a best case scenario.
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
tabitha95 ( member #22033) posted at 10:20 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014
Good luck. What I have discovered is the more worried I am about the date, the less I'm really thinking the guy and I are matches. The ones where I feel more comfortable going in, are the ones where I'm not feeling judged by them.
BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).
WeepingBuddhist (original poster member #39139) posted at 2:47 PM on Wednesday, June 18th, 2014
All went well. We had a beer and both had to head back out to the country. We will meet again. Not sure if I even want anything other than a smart, funny (and super cute!!!) guy to have a beer with now and then. thanks for the good mojo!
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 3:10 PM on Wednesday, June 18th, 2014
Nothing wrong with having a cute drinking buddy!
WeepingBuddhist (original poster member #39139) posted at 3:37 PM on Wednesday, June 18th, 2014
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
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