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WeepingBuddhist posted 6/17/2014 13:30 PM

I am going to meet a guy I met OLD. I'm in a tiny town and it turns out we know some of the same folks so I'm not worried about him being a serial killer. I'm more freaked out than I expected.

courageous posted 6/17/2014 13:31 PM

Good luck! You will be fine

MovingUpward posted 6/17/2014 13:32 PM

Imagine him in his underwear. No wait, that is for public speaking.

Relax and enjoy the moment.

nowiknow23 posted 6/17/2014 13:45 PM

Think of it as just a chance to get to know someone new. Relax and enjoy.

jo2love posted 6/17/2014 13:46 PM

I hope you have a wonderful time.

norabird posted 6/17/2014 13:56 PM

If it's any comfort, in my experience the pre-meeting butterflies go away as soon as the date actually starts.

Have fun!

WeepingBuddhist posted 6/17/2014 14:02 PM

It's not bad. On a scale of one to ten, I'd say I'm maybe a four. Worst case scenario, is he's a nice guy to have a beer with now and then. I think what's freaking me out is that I don't know what I would consider a best case scenario.

tabitha95 posted 6/17/2014 16:20 PM

Good luck. What I have discovered is the more worried I am about the date, the less I'm really thinking the guy and I are matches. The ones where I feel more comfortable going in, are the ones where I'm not feeling judged by them.

WeepingBuddhist posted 6/18/2014 08:47 AM

All went well. We had a beer and both had to head back out to the country. We will meet again. Not sure if I even want anything other than a smart, funny (and super cute!!!) guy to have a beer with now and then. thanks for the good mojo!

norabird posted 6/18/2014 09:10 AM

Nothing wrong with having a cute drinking buddy!

WeepingBuddhist posted 6/18/2014 09:37 AM

My thoughts exactly!