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WeepingBuddhist
♀ 39139
Member # 39139
Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am going to meet a guy I met OLD. I'm in a tiny town and it turns out we know some of the same folks so I'm not worried about him being a serial killer. I'm more freaked out than I expected.


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 978 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: BFE
courageous
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Member # 34477
Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck! You will be fine


Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012
Exwh married his AP

My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.


Posts: 812 | Registered: Jan 2012
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Imagine him in his underwear. No wait, that is for public speaking.

Relax and enjoy the moment.


Posts: 54405 | Registered: Jun 2007
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Think of it as just a chance to get to know someone new. Relax and enjoy.


You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane


Posts: 40231 | Registered: Aug 2011
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope you have a wonderful time.

Posts: 50575 | Registered: Mar 2011
norabird
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Default  Posted: 1:56 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If it's any comfort, in my experience the pre-meeting butterflies go away as soon as the date actually starts.

Have fun!


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4324 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
WeepingBuddhist
♀ 39139
Member # 39139
Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's not bad. On a scale of one to ten, I'd say I'm maybe a four. Worst case scenario, is he's a nice guy to have a beer with now and then. I think what's freaking me out is that I don't know what I would consider a best case scenario.


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 978 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: BFE
tabitha95
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck. What I have discovered is the more worried I am about the date, the less I'm really thinking the guy and I are matches. The ones where I feel more comfortable going in, are the ones where I'm not feeling judged by them.


BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3266 | Registered: Dec 2008
WeepingBuddhist
♀ 39139
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Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All went well. We had a beer and both had to head back out to the country. We will meet again. Not sure if I even want anything other than a smart, funny (and super cute!!!) guy to have a beer with now and then. thanks for the good mojo!


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 978 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: BFE
norabird
♀ 42092
Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nothing wrong with having a cute drinking buddy!


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4324 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
WeepingBuddhist
♀ 39139
Member # 39139
Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My thoughts exactly!


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 978 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: BFE
Topic Posts: 11

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