Alyssa-was he like that pre-A? If so, I'd say discuss it in MC. Yes you had the A but you have decided to R so your need for communication and to be heard should be addressed or it will build resentment in you.
If not, then you might need to tread more lightly. I'd still say bring it up in MC but know it's going to be something he might have to work out.
It sounds like an issue that comes up in a lot of Ms at some point. As people who are SI, I think we become much more sensitive to these. Some WS go above and beyond trying to show the BS how much they appreciate the gift of R, but you can't keep that up if you start to resent it. As a BS, I wouldn't expect that forever anyway. Some BS become overly sensitive to non-A related things as well. "He's not picking up his socks, he must not love me." It can be maddening.
I guess what I'm saying is step back and look, is this an A issue or an M issue? At some point they have to be differentiated. Are you there yet?