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I found out almost a month ago that my wh has a girflriend and thinks he may have a new future with her. He has been staying with friends but I had to leave town due to a family illness. I knew he was going to see her and could only ask him not to bring her into my house. I just found out that she has been there several times. I know a ws in the fog is dumber than a box of rocks but do they really think a bs is stupid and will nevervcatch onto their games?

For everything like he does it kust strengthens my resolve to divorce his ass.

Bringing her into your house is a true violation. of your intimacy, the things you shared. How are you coping with this?

Seems you are judging him on his actions, not his words. In this way, you are doing good.

[This message edited by burnt_toast at 8:34 PM, June 20th (Friday)]

I am not so good. I can't seem to wrap my head around who this man is. I wonder where my h went? I think his behavior iis going to help me in the long run. He is not my h nor do I feel he e ever will be again.

He told me he still has respect for me. I am like most people dom't e en treat a dog the way he is treating me.

do they really think a bs is stupid and will never catch onto their games

I truly think so. They think they are so smart and crafty and that we will believe everything they say and never check up on them.

I'm sorry you're going through this. One month out is a drop in the bucket. I think a lot of us still felt like we could barely function at that stage. It gets better.

(((Sleepingbeauty)))

I don't believe they think of us as stupid. It is much worse than that: they don't think of us at all. The opposite of love is indifference.