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Topic: Friends profile disappears from Facebook?

Deanna
♀ 26854
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Posted: 8:59 PM, June 22nd (Sunday), 2014

So, I have a friend who lives her life through Facebook. She has a biz zillion friends. Her husband is sickly and I was wondering if there might be some "too close" friendships on Facebook. A couple days ago her daughter says her family needs prayers but she can't say why. I go to my friends FB and it's gone. When I click on her user name it says content gone. When I look at old messages it says FB user instead of her name.
I know I am jaded but I can't help feeling something happened on FB.

DDay - 11/4/09
BS-49 DDay
fWS-46 DDay
EA/PA with childhood sweetheart/ kissed
R - 11/25/09
Life is not a dress rehearsal

Posts: 1670 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Northeast

Ostrich80
34827
Member # 34827

Posted: 3:12 AM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014

Probably so hopefully she closed it down before she stepped over the line. Maybe she's afraid a bs is looking for her.

BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5738 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest

Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239

Posted: 7:05 AM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014

Wow; with a sickly husband, that would not be the first conclusion that I would jump to. Why not just silently offer up a prayer for her situation, whatever it is.

My DIL has several hundred friends, and she deactivated her profile because she spends way too much time on FB and now with the baby and a new job, she just can't do it anymore.

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

Posts: 25264 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona

IrishGirlVA
♀ 39694
Member # 39694

Posted: 2:15 PM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014

I agree with Sad in AZ. Hopefully nothing happened to her hubby. But I understand how you could be jaded, too!

I did a lot of facebooking at one time. Had a lot of "friends" and kept up on it regularly. Then, one day out of the blue, I just had enough and shut it down. I was forgetting about my real life friends and needed to get back to the real world.

I hope everything is ok with your friend.

Me, the "B": 42yo
Him, the "W": 38yo
DDay: June 2013
Status: Over

Posts: 1436 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Virginia

hopefull77
♀ 43221
Member # 43221

Posted: 6:29 PM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014

Facebook is a huge time waster....
being a caretaker is hard....it can feel lonely....
Pray for her and the family

me-BS
him-WS
3 adult children 1D 2S
married-1977
LTA 2010-2012
D-day - 11-11-2012
status - reconciling and very hopeful

"First the fall, and then the recovery from the fall, and both are the mercy of God." —Julian of Norwich

Posts: 2450 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: sunny california

sparkysable
♀ 3703
Member # 3703

Posted: 2:19 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014

Is it possible that you were blocked? My friend's WW blocked me and all previous interactions with her now showed the blank picture and facebook user.

BW - 40
DD - 7 years old
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.

Posts: 5390 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY

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