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User Topic: Friends profile disappears from Facebook?
♀ 26854
Member # 26854
Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, June 22nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, I have a friend who lives her life through Facebook. She has a biz zillion friends. Her husband is sickly and I was wondering if there might be some "too close" friendships on Facebook. A couple days ago her daughter says her family needs prayers but she can't say why. I go to my friends FB and it's gone. When I click on her user name it says content gone. When I look at old messages it says FB user instead of her name.
I know I am jaded but I can't help feeling something happened on FB.

DDay - 11/4/09
BS-49 DDay
fWS-46 DDay
EA/PA with childhood sweetheart/ kissed
R - 11/25/09
Life is not a dress rehearsal

Posts: 1670 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Northeast
Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 3:12 AM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Probably so hopefully she closed it down before she stepped over the line. Maybe she's afraid a bs is looking for her.
Been with him over half my life
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank

Posts: 5738 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239
Default  Posted: 7:05 AM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow; with a sickly husband, that would not be the first conclusion that I would jump to. Why not just silently offer up a prayer for her situation, whatever it is.

My DIL has several hundred friends, and she deactivated her profile because she spends way too much time on FB and now with the baby and a new job, she just can't do it anymore.

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

Posts: 25302 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona
♀ 39694
Member # 39694
Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with Sad in AZ. Hopefully nothing happened to her hubby. But I understand how you could be jaded, too!

I did a lot of facebooking at one time. Had a lot of "friends" and kept up on it regularly. Then, one day out of the blue, I just had enough and shut it down. I was forgetting about my real life friends and needed to get back to the real world.

I hope everything is ok with your friend.

Me, the "B": 42yo
Him, the "W": 38yo
DDay: June 2013
Status: Over

Posts: 1445 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Virginia
♀ 43221
Member # 43221
Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Facebook is a huge time waster....
being a caretaker is can feel lonely....
Pray for her and the family

3 adult children 1D 2S
LTA 2010-2012
D-day - 11-11-2012
status - reconciling and very hopeful

" I will not define myself by what went wrong yesterday when I can draw upon Life and Love right now." R.R

Posts: 2529 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: sunny california
♀ 3703
Member # 3703
Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is it possible that you were blocked? My friend's WW blocked me and all previous interactions with her now showed the blank picture and facebook user.

BW - 40
DD - 7 years old
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.

Posts: 5485 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
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