Yeah...if you're looking for hope, it's best to stay out of my profile
Was he committed to working on R?
In the beginning it seemed like he was, but because I wasn't "getting over it" because it "wasn't as bad as what other people of have done." it just got worse from there. He still lies and keeps his secrets. He's controlling to a degree (information, money etc..) As you've seen on my profile he still goes out to his dating sites.
How long had it been?
I first D-day was June 12, 2008. It's been a series of non stop D-Day's since. The date of the first online dating site that I found goes back to 2004
I'm sorry you have to deal with this is as well. Please understand that cyber/online cheating is still cheating. Don't let him downplay it like mine did. It's still a betrayal on many levels. My husband also views porn. He had pictures on his desktop, saved to discs, he even tweets .gifs of women shaking their large chests on twitter
My husband also talks shit about the three of us to his gaming friends. I so understand what you're going through. I think I'm you in a future state, sorry to say.
If you ever need to talk, I'm just a pm away.