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Its been a month since I was sitting at our apartment all alone on a weekend that was supposed to be special because we were spending time without the kids. A month ago I knew in my mind that my WF was out cheating on me and that our relationship was over. I took off my ring and went to bed, he didn't come home til the next morning and after awhile I was able to get him to admit he cheated.

That anger is still inside of me, that pain is still so raw and I hate it. I hate that I still care. For some reason my heart seems to care that he's out running around like a teenager with no responsibilities, more than likely hooking up with different people and I just wish it would stop. I wish my brain was able to let my heart see fully that he is NEVER going to change and that we're moving on. I want to, my brain tells me to but my heart keeps me caring about him.

(((hugs)))

I had to write down the rational reasons my head saw and often had to reread them for my heart to understand and to quit giving my wayward a pass. I hope that you can reach a resolution that move you toward a healing place soon.

Sometimes it takes a while for your heart to catch up with your head, and that's OK. Just do your thinking with your head. (((hugs)))