I'm not worried about going topless because of course I will NOT,😬(my saggy boobs are one of my biggest insecurities), but I simply don't know if I could handle the triggers that I know it will cause. And I don't think H will agree to wear a blindfold, lol.
Are all the beaches there topless? I know there are 'family' resorts that probably are not topless, but we want to go to an adults only resort. (We are thinking about Couples Swept Away in Negril).
And do you really want to spend your vacation wondering what is going on behind your H's sunglasses? Regardless of marital history, I can't imagine feeling good on vacation when there is a possibility of being surrounded by perkiness!
I think you should continue shopping around for other hotels and/or vacation spots.
Confronted him: 12/22/2011
This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.
I have been to Jamaica and Mexico many times, and at both, even at family friendly resorts (we tend to go to the Italian/Spanish owned resorts) there are topless women at the beach.
I also have to say the number of topless women I have seen on these beaches, have great self body image, cause sister most of them got no business walking around topless, if you get my point. I figure you either got one set of parts or the other, it's not a big deal. Sure they are all different and some are prettier than others, but you wouldn't expect him to not look at other womens faces ever again either, as long as he isn't getting pleasure from it, who cares.
Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.
We have been to Couples Negril and tried the nude beach years ago. We loved it and prefer it over the regular beach.
We are actually modest people and the comfort level we felt on the nude beach surprised us both. It is liberating and comfortable and not at all sexual. There are people of all shapes and sizes and there is no judgment.
Couples Swept Away doesn't have a nude beach. I don't think many at the Couples resorts go topless on the regular beaches, although they are permitted to. I can't remember seeing even one topless person on the regular beach. I think the people who want to just go to the nude beaches.
You can PM me too if you have any questions! But in my world, the answer to any question regarding Jamaica is always YES!
Also, go to couples.com. It has info about all the couples resorts. Or go onto FB and find the page for each resort. Many people ask specific questions on there.
I am a Couples-phile, can you tell?
Check out the couples forum. TONS of information and they have a search feature so you can find exactly what you're looking for!!
I'll be checking out the facebook page, thanks again AN!!!!
3 boys: 11, 9, and 1.
The problem is, we LOVE Couples Negril so much, and love the Negril beaches, so we haven't gone anyplace else since we tried that.
But, we will eventually go back to CTI. We just have to!
I am thrilled that you are going to CTI! You're going to love it. The Jamaicans say, Once you go, you know.