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Rules for a successful R??

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tornapartheart posted 6/27/2014 17:05 PM

Did you make a written contract for R?
I'm thinking I will make a contract and present it to WS today, and if he doesn't want to abide by it, I have all his clothes and belongings already packed and by the door.

What were some rules you established for a successful R?

peoplepleaser posted 6/27/2014 17:15 PM

Read the thread in here called "Before you say R..." It's wonderful for laying out the needs of a BS.

I had these:

100% transparency and accountability
Expressed remorse
Recognizing that I was in no way responsible for the EAs
No alone time with feminine women
The truth about the worst of what she did

I did the 180 until she agreed and we were separated in-house. I told her to start looking for an apartment when she decided to meet my needs for R.

Risk you relationship to save it.

Good luck.

rachelc posted 6/27/2014 17:29 PM

check out this thread. Mhca made this list of requirements:

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