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wannabenormal posted 6/28/2014 01:37 AM

I realized today was the first time I didn't post about my "antiversary".

I started here in June 2008. I posted a lot, trying to fix things. Then I posted a ton more about how unfair it was that I couldn't fix things and how I was robbed and he sucked and so on.

I got so much advice that I ignored. WE were going to be different. Then I thought, ok,,it didn't work out initially but he'll come around! He didn't.

Then I remember reading it takes 2-5 years to get over 'this'. I remember thinking, "Surely it won't take me that long!". Well it did, it took the 5 yrs!

I posted ON my antiversary, about my antiversary for years. About how sad I was, about how unfair it all was!

This year - I didn't post. I see now I didn't even post that entire month and that's a really good thing!

We DO survive!!! Thanks SI and all my SI friends over the last 6 years!!

caregiver9000 posted 6/28/2014 02:27 AM

You were robbed and he does suck!!! ....but I am glad you moved past it all.

You navigated all the stages with strength, wit, and humor, and, company.