I realized today was the first time I didn't post about my "antiversary".
I started here in June 2008. I posted a lot, trying to fix things. Then I posted a ton more about how unfair it was that I couldn't fix things and how I was robbed and he sucked and so on.
I got so much advice that I ignored. WE were going to be different. Then I thought, ok,,it didn't work out initially but he'll come around! He didn't.
Then I remember reading it takes 2-5 years to get over 'this'. I remember thinking, "Surely it won't take me that long!". Well it did, it took the 5 yrs!
I posted ON my antiversary, about my antiversary for years. About how sad I was, about how unfair it all was!
This year - I didn't post. I see now I didn't even post that entire month and that's a really good thing!
We DO survive!!! Thanks SI and all my SI friends over the last 6 years!!
