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notgoneyet posted 6/28/2014 18:37 PM

The AF has moved 50 miles to be in the same town as us. Very small town. I see her most everyday. WH denies knowing why she is here, having any contact, etc. I don't know what to believe. I keep CLOSE tabs on him and his phone. She posts on facebook that she is in a relationship and other things about not being over until GOD says its over.

MY DIL says not be believe him and to get out. I just don't know what to do. We are in IC and MC where he denies everything and denies when I ask him. But this is the 2nd time for an affair ist time EA, this time PA and I don't know what to believe. So far I have opened my own credit card and opened own bank accounts 40 years of marriage almost.

Anyone else been here and it turned out alright? She is present in our town frequently. It is just creepy.


notgoneyet posted 6/28/2014 18:38 PM

I means AP affair partner.

wifehad5 posted 6/28/2014 18:49 PM

Do they still work together?

notgoneyet posted 7/5/2014 18:56 PM

Been out of touch for awhile. He fired her when I told him he had to so no they don't work together anymore. It is just so strange. I never blocked her on fb because I couldnt see her, obviously she blocked me from the start. I created fake fb account and can see her and she still says in a relationship and posts things like "he" fulfills her needs. She is "very religious" what a joke. Don't know what to think, what to believe. I keep absolute control over who he talks to, where he goes but think I need to hire a pi to make sure. I'm not sure I want to know. So sad.

Girlietoo posted 7/5/2014 20:30 PM

It must be very difficult to be in that kind of limbo. It's sad to say but I hope she is just posting those things to make you think awful things about your husband. I hope you can get the positive conformation that you are looking for.

Softcentre posted 7/6/2014 13:18 PM

Personally, I'd use all the different investigative techniques, but also loosen the strings and see what he does when he thinks you aren't so vigilant. Trying to control him will just wear you out in every way. Instead let him make his choices for himself, and then at least you'll know if you truly have a shot at R

karmahappens posted 7/6/2014 18:10 PM

I would hire a PI.

She might just be crazy but that would have my stomach in knots and I would need definite proof.

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