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Topic: I laughed.
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cmego
♀ 30346
Member # 30346 |  Posted: 5:26 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014 |     |
I received a phone call today that my D is final.
I laughed. I felt light and happy and my only thought was, "It is finally over."
Ex texted that he will now work on his end (COBRA), and said "I wasn't sure if I should text you." I replied that I was fine and laughing. He said, "You are laughing??".
Yes. I. Am.
I have a date tomorrow night...with a very interesting man. Very. 
My, what a few years will do for a girl.
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
Posts: 4738 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South |
phmh
♀ 34146
Member # 34146 | | Posted: 5:34 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014 | |
I'm so happy for you to have this final piece done. Congrats and have fun tomorrow 
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
Posts: 4395 | Registered: Dec 2011 |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 6:00 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014 | |
Congrats!!! I hope you have a great time on your date.
Posts: 50161 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
thebighurt
♀ 34722
Member # 34722 | | Posted: 8:22 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014 | |
Congratulatory hugs, ((((cmego))))!! I know that feeling and felt the same. Total relief and feeling light and free. Enjoy your new life.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Posts: 3751 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side |
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150 | | Posted: 8:23 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014 | |
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 20571 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada |
cayc
♀ 21964
Member # 21964 | | Posted: 9:03 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014 | |
Posts: 3446 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico |
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870 | | Posted: 9:50 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014 | |
Yay! So glad for you.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 9126 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA |
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229 | | Posted: 10:10 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014 | |
WOOWHOO!
FINALLY!! Was my reaction.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 6000 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia |
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622 | | Posted: 10:17 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014 | |
moving on. Welcome to the rest of your life.
Me: 45, independent, happy, despite parallel parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 15 DS 12
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
Posts: 7052 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place |
tryingagain74
♀ 33698
Member # 33698 | | Posted: 10:45 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014 | |
Congrats! *hitting the like button*
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 4079 | Registered: Oct 2011 |
PurpleRose
♀ 33129
Member # 33129 | | Posted: 10:49 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014 | |
*like*
Wait, cross that out.
*love!!*
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
Posts: 3870 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville |
Ms_Strong
♀ 30883
Member # 30883 | | Posted: 4:06 AM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
I remember seeing your handle on replies to my posts, and posts that I replied to over the years.
I'm so happy for you! That's great. Congratulations!
I was so relieved when my D was official too. My XH cried on the day. How 'bout that.
Me: 40, happily divorced Dec11
D-Day #1 - 9th Jan 11, D-Day #2 - 13th Jan 11
Kids - 4, 8 yrs
Posts: 324 | Registered: Jan 2011 |
brokeninfl
♀ 21896
Member # 21896 | | Posted: 8:10 AM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
*like*
Wait, cross that out.
*love!!*
^^^^^
This!
I'm so happy for you!!
"On the other side of fear lies freedom"
Me - 36 BS
Him - doesn't matter
2 DS
DD 11/08
Divorced.
Posts: 1074 | Registered: Dec 2008 |
Amazonia
♀ 32810
Member # 32810 | | Posted: 9:07 AM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Congrats!!!
Do you feel differently? I know your long separation was different from many that we see here (struggling to finish the divorce/fight the fight, whereas your was voluntary to finish school, with an extremely strong separation agreement in place and all the arguments knocked out), so I was curious if it felt as monumentous as some of the "victory" divorces?
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Posts: 14441 | Registered: Jul 2011 |
cmego
♀ 30346
Member # 30346 | | Posted: 10:32 AM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Ama...
Yeah, actually I do feel different. It was a long fight with him, even fighting when I filed (he tried to change the PSA one last time), but I was able to not be emotional about the fighting since I'm so detached. Does that make sense? My IC says I treat him like a buzzing fly, annoying...but out of my head as soon as I brush him off.
It is a "free" feeling. I don't know how to explain it. Not a victory, but just...free.
And nervous about this date tonight. This man is different. A "real" date at a nice restaurant and drinks afterwards at a wine bar. We shall see. [This message edited by cmego at 12:57 PM, July 1st (Tuesday)]
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
Posts: 4738 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South |
WeepingBuddhist
♀ 39139
Member # 39139 | | Posted: 1:32 PM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Congratulations!!!
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
Posts: 978 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: BFE |
Lonelygirl10
♀ 39850
Member # 39850 | | Posted: 2:36 PM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Have fun on your date tonight
Posts: 1748 | Registered: Jul 2013 |
Amazonia
♀ 32810
Member # 32810 | | Posted: 7:55 PM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Love it :) I hope the new free feeling bodes well for your dating as well!
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Posts: 14441 | Registered: Jul 2011 |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 8:08 PM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Free is lovely. Congrats, honey.
We'll be waiting up for the debrief when you get in from your date. Don't miss curfew.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Posts: 40124 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
cmego
♀ 30346
Member # 30346 | | Posted: 9:07 PM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Date went well He asked me out again and I accepted.
I didn't get major butterflies, but more of a secure calmness..which I take as a good sign. I enjoyed his company, I though he was very cute and am looking forward to spending more time with him.
Yeah!
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
Posts: 4738 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South |
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