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cmego posted 6/30/2014 17:26 PM

I received a phone call today that my D is final.

I laughed. I felt light and happy and my only thought was, "It is finally over."

Ex texted that he will now work on his end (COBRA), and said "I wasn't sure if I should text you." I replied that I was fine and laughing. He said, "You are laughing??".

Yes. I. Am.

I have a date tomorrow night...with a very interesting man. Very.

My, what a few years will do for a girl.

phmh posted 6/30/2014 17:34 PM

I'm so happy for you to have this final piece done. Congrats and have fun tomorrow

jo2love posted 6/30/2014 18:00 PM

Congrats!!! I hope you have a great time on your date.

thebighurt posted 6/30/2014 20:22 PM

Congratulatory hugs, ((((cmego))))!! I know that feeling and felt the same. Total relief and feeling light and free. Enjoy your new life.

FaithFool posted 6/30/2014 20:23 PM

cayc posted 6/30/2014 21:03 PM

clap clap clap!!!!!!!

Williesmom posted 6/30/2014 21:50 PM

Yay! So glad for you.

SBB posted 6/30/2014 22:10 PM

WOOWHOO!

FINALLY!! Was my reaction.

caregiver9000 posted 6/30/2014 22:17 PM

moving on. Welcome to the rest of your life.

tryingagain74 posted 6/30/2014 22:45 PM

Congrats! *hitting the like button*

PurpleRose posted 6/30/2014 22:49 PM

*like*

Wait, cross that out.

*love!!*

Ms_Strong posted 7/1/2014 04:06 AM

I remember seeing your handle on replies to my posts, and posts that I replied to over the years.
I'm so happy for you! That's great. Congratulations!
I was so relieved when my D was official too. My XH cried on the day. How 'bout that.

brokeninfl posted 7/1/2014 08:10 AM

*like*
Wait, cross that out.

*love!!*

^^^^^

This!

I'm so happy for you!!

Amazonia posted 7/1/2014 09:07 AM

Congrats!!!

Do you feel differently? I know your long separation was different from many that we see here (struggling to finish the divorce/fight the fight, whereas your was voluntary to finish school, with an extremely strong separation agreement in place and all the arguments knocked out), so I was curious if it felt as monumentous as some of the "victory" divorces?

cmego posted 7/1/2014 10:32 AM

Ama...

Yeah, actually I do feel different. It was a long fight with him, even fighting when I filed (he tried to change the PSA one last time), but I was able to not be emotional about the fighting since I'm so detached. Does that make sense? My IC says I treat him like a buzzing fly, annoying...but out of my head as soon as I brush him off.

It is a "free" feeling. I don't know how to explain it. Not a victory, but just...free.

And nervous about this date tonight. This man is different. A "real" date at a nice restaurant and drinks afterwards at a wine bar. We shall see.

[This message edited by cmego at 12:57 PM, July 1st (Tuesday)]

WeepingBuddhist posted 7/1/2014 13:32 PM

Congratulations!!!

Lonelygirl10 posted 7/1/2014 14:36 PM

Have fun on your date tonight

Amazonia posted 7/1/2014 19:55 PM

Love it :) I hope the new free feeling bodes well for your dating as well!

nowiknow23 posted 7/1/2014 20:08 PM

Free is lovely. Congrats, honey.

We'll be waiting up for the debrief when you get in from your date. Don't miss curfew.

cmego posted 7/1/2014 21:07 PM

Date went well He asked me out again and I accepted.

I didn't get major butterflies, but more of a secure calmness..which I take as a good sign. I enjoyed his company, I though he was very cute and am looking forward to spending more time with him.

Yeah!

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