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Jls0320 posted 7/1/2014 14:13 PM

So last week I tested WH by texting his as the OW from another number, he passed. I still feel like there's more I don't know, he failed 2 questions on a polygraph about her but swears he was nervous and not lying. Here's where crazy comes in, I want to have "her" text me saying "we need to chat". My thinking is he may come clean if there's anything else to admit to out of fear "she" will tell me. Tell me I'm crazy insane.

brokengirl37 posted 7/1/2014 14:52 PM

I think you are pain shopping which will make you feel crazy...but you are not crazy. Stop driving yourself mad. What is he doing to make you feel safe? If he says everything is out in the open then you sit back and let his actions do the talking...if something else comes out then you have your answer.

((((Jls0320))))

whereismylove posted 7/1/2014 17:54 PM

You're not crazy. I know how it is you want to know the whole truth but that just adds to the list of triggers that ruins your day. Keep testing him no problem but if the affair really is over its better in my opinion to move past and heal and not try to find out all the details. It will just make you mad/sad/insane/sick all over again when you hear those details. Its really good that he didn't respond to those texts my husband can't help himself.

Jls0320 posted 7/2/2014 10:26 AM

Thanks :) I got so much trickle truth about the situation, were just friends, then tells me some of the texts and comments when I'm about to find the answers on my own. He failed the poly when asked if he's had sex with her, but says he never did. I feel like he thinks he's gotten away with it so no need to admit to more which is why I want to shake him up and see if there's more he'd like to admit to

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