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User Topic: Some good news
♀ 43919
Member # 43919
Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So I am the breadwinner. I make the money and I paid our bills. He's relieving me of $1,000 a month so that helps. I'm not as stressed financially. But I still don't have a comfortable savings acct. we'll, my sister just called and asked if she can move in when he moves out. She has been trying to move out of our psycho parents house (she's 22), and jumped at this chance. So, I said yes. She will pay 1/2 rent and I can put $500 in savings each month now and can build up a comfortable savings and pay off my credit cards. I hate roommates. But she works A LOT and won't be home often. And I have the space. So....I'm gonna take this as good news.

Praying it works out. It will be nice to not be alone. I hide my pain from my kids and having my sister here may help me. I just don't know if I can deal with annoying 22 year old girl problems. I already told her no men can come over as I have kids to protect and she totally understands. So...fingers crossed!!

BW-me (31)
WXH-him (30)
DD-4, DS-14
High school sweethearts. 14 years gone. He doesn't even care. It meant nothing to him.
False R-3/2011 to 6/2014
Found evidence going back 2 years. He's moving in with OW.

Posts: 233 | Registered: Jun 2014
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope this having your sis move in will bring you a little peace on top of some savings.

Posts: 54405 | Registered: Jun 2007
♀ 40605
Member # 40605
Default  Posted: 2:35 AM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is great news! I think you should take it as a sign that things are going to work out for you in this new direction you are headed. It reminds me of the saying that if you jump, the universe will provide a net. I'm sure there are more to come.

Me: BS, 46
Him: WH, 47
Together 24 years
4 amazing kids
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Choosing myself daily and R almost every day

Posts: 699 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest
♀ 43304
Member # 43304
Default  Posted: 6:59 AM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes dear Numb, you are already seeing some light at the end of the tunnel. Keep it up. He is the one who is replaceable.

Posts: 358 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Hawaii
♀ 42092
Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How great! You really, truly do not need him in your life and are going to have such peace and calm when he is a distant memory.

Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4324 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
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