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User Topic: The Reverse
♀ 36126
Member # 36126
Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You almost always hear watch the action not the words in a a helpful way as far as relationships but what does it mean when the actions don't match the words.

For example what if you know you irritate someone just by your personality and you worry about it but the other decides your the one. Do you correct the action if you care for the person?

In my soul I believe in fit and I believe time will tell. I also don't want someone settling for me- not in a negative self esteem way but honestly we all have various personalities.

I figure time will tell but this I didn't expect in a good way but is it good?

[This message edited by fireproof at 5:12 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday)]

Posts: 1457 | Registered: Jul 2012
♂ 32368
Member # 32368
Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Take it from someone who is so annoying that sometimes I annoy myself. Attempting to lower your annoyance factor to accommodate someone for the purpose of a relationship will end up only annoying you. Oh that's probably just BS...I just felt like writing something that would annoy someone and there is always someone who is annoyed about something.

I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know.

Posts: 639 | Registered: Jun 2011
♀ 36126
Member # 36126
Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was just excited to see someone knew what I was trying to ask

You make a very good point- thank you for the insight!

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♀ 38924
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Default  Posted: 6:14 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bahahaha, right. sounds like my work.

there is always someone who is annoyed about something.

Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 6:08 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is unreasonable to think someone won't ever annoy you.

I'm AOK with being annoyed by and annoying another. As long as he and I understand that it is the annoyees issue. The annoyer is just living their live. As long as they're not trying to annoy me.

If there's something about me that annoys someone I might consider trying to change but it depends on what it is. If it's my clap (I have the loudest, sharpest clap on the plant - what is hilarious is my girls have inherited it) then they are shit out of luck. If it is how I fold my socks they can go get fucked. If it is how I fold their socks - I'd consider it.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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