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Reconciliation :
Password therapy...I'm going to try this!

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 Exhausted in OH (original poster member #34340) posted at 6:15 AM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

http://t.today.com/health/workout4abs-can-password-therapy-really-improve-your-life-1D79878858

BS 42(now 47), WH now 48
Married 15 (now 20!), together 24, 3 great kids - 17, 15,12
DD Sept 2011 - 4mo PA; on DD also admitted to ONS in 2007
R going well
And now I realize...- Me online EA - old college friend
No longer exhausted nor in OH

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 2:05 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

I heard about this on the radio today. I hope that you find it works for you. It is working for me today.

#EatMorChocolate

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WabiSabi ( member #43489) posted at 2:17 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

That is such an awesome idea!!! I'm going to try it. Thank you for sharing this.

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CATransplant ( member #39567) posted at 4:04 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

Wonderful idea. I think both myself and my fwh will be changing passwords around here. :)

Thank you Exhausted, I was needing a new tool to battle depression. I think you provided me with it.

Koodoo's to you

Me BS
H FWS
M 3/27/12 together since 06'
A EA/PA 4/19/13/5/26/13
DD 6/12/13
Forced NC 6/13/13
MOW coworker-caught,TT for six months.

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 Exhausted in OH (original poster member #34340) posted at 6:56 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

I'm one of the most pragmatic people you could ever meet. But I do think that there is something to be said about the power of positive thinking. And reading this small, cute article made me see that I've been a slave to negative thinking for far too long (what if....)

My first password change - Leturselfb3happy!

BS 42(now 47), WH now 48
Married 15 (now 20!), together 24, 3 great kids - 17, 15,12
DD Sept 2011 - 4mo PA; on DD also admitted to ONS in 2007
R going well
And now I realize...- Me online EA - old college friend
No longer exhausted nor in OH

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AML04 ( member #39682) posted at 10:28 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

Love this!!

Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

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3kids30years ( member #38879) posted at 10:35 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

Great Idea!

After DDay WH and I both changed our passwords to remind us of each other - Birthday, Anniversary, kids birthdays, initials.

It does help.

Might be time to change it again

[This message edited by 3kids30years at 5:02 PM, July 3rd (Thursday)]

BW - 52 on Dday
WH - 53 on Dday
DDay - 3/2/13 - 2:07pm 2+ year EA/PA
TT until 2016 - why do they do that?

Trust is earned, respect is given, & loyalty is demonstrated. Betrayal of any one is to loose all three.

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hopefull77 ( member #43221) posted at 12:58 AM on Friday, July 4th, 2014

me-BS him-WS

" I will not define myself by what went wrong yesterday when I can draw upon Life and Love right now."

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