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User Topic: 1,000 Post Party for 20WrongsVs1!!!!!!
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Content  Posted: 7:54 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!!!! 1,000 Posts!!!! Thank you for your straight forwardness in your posts. You have a way to get right to the heart of the issue and that is needed for many here. Thank you for being there for the new waywards that find their way here as well as the help in R forum too.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 53332 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! 1000 posts for my SFAM

Congrats 20W, don't know where I'd be without you.


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - Jan 2010 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1270 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
LosferWords
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Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 8:46 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats, 20W! Thanks for all you do around here!


Why don't you just say it? I'm the worst toy-maker in the world. I'm a Cotton-Headed Ninnymuggins!

Posts: 8270 | Registered: Dec 2010
20WrongsVs1
♀ 39000
Member # 39000
Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BBT how cool is it that we hit 1,000 on the same day?

Thank you Moo, for the kind words. Thanks Losfer.

I'd like to buy the house a round.

And not to exclude the teetotalers


fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
"Between stimulus and response there’s a space, in that space lies our power to choose our response, in our response lies our growth and our freedom." V. Frankl

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Redneck land
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! Thank you for all you do.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26515 | Registered: Aug 2011
BrokenButTrying
♀ 42111
Member # 42111
Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's very cool we have our 1000th post parties on the same day! No one else I'd rather share it with.

It's 3.30pm here in the uk and a lovely 27°c. I make that Pimms o'clock!


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - Jan 2010 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1270 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:34 PM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!

Posts: 36800 | Registered: Mar 2011
WalkinOnEggshelz
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Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


Me: WS 42
Him: BH 43(HoldingTogether)
M: 18years, together 22
2 Daughters: 13 and 10
D Day: 7/24/2010; TT to 10/17/10
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

Posts: 801 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Texas
knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! Congrats!!!


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

I edit often because I make a lot of typos. ☺️


Posts: 1525 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
Tred
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! And what Moo said


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 4134 | Registered: Dec 2011
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!! You've been a huge help here!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 199193 | Registered: May 2002
tired girl
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats lady, you have come a long way


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

Posts: 5247 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: az
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!!!!!


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3525 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


Posts: 5758 | Registered: Aug 2007
yearsofpain25
♂ 42012
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Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats 20WV1!

I have read many of your posts. Thank you


"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

Posts: 2483 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
wheredoigo
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A sincere thanks for your posts, 20WV1! Always a huge help. Congrats on your milestone. Thank you for being here!


1st marriage BS to xSAWH (34)
WW-2nd marriage (me) 33 to BS(Jt8d) 36
It's important to heal yourself in a healthy way from all hurt or it will hurt you and the ones you love more than the original hurt before.

Posts: 234 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Midwest
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 1:59 AM, July 10th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woot woot!!!!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2556 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
pizzalover
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Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, July 10th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yippee!! Thanks for being so supportive of me!!


Trying to rebuild each day

Me - WW 39
Him - BH 40 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - sweet cats

Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
D-Day - 1/24/13
Affair started 5/09


Posts: 530 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
20WrongsVs1
♀ 39000
Member # 39000
Cool  Posted: 2:05 PM, July 10th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gosh, thank you so much, everyone!

Tred, yop, all y'all Menz, the insights you've shared have helped me so much, thank you.

Tired Girl, pretty sure you did some ass-kicking back in the day, for which I'm forever grateful. So glad, again, that you're back!

kbff, WOES, pl, my formerly wayward sistahs, your support and feedback means the world to me.

Really glad I found SI, thank you DS for this great resource. But I'll leave the smooching of MH to you.


fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
"Between stimulus and response there’s a space, in that space lies our power to choose our response, in our response lies our growth and our freedom." V. Frankl

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Redneck land
cantaccept
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, July 10th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You give more than you know. Congratulations!


"So often times it happens, that we live our lives in chains and we never even know we have the key"

I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh boots5050
attempted R, it was all a lie

Divorced!


Posts: 1591 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Connecticut
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