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User Topic: My son died
Angel177
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Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He was dead in his crib yeaterday morning. He had just turned 13 months old. I don't know what happened. He was perfectly healthy.

The last two year have been filled with more pain then any one person should deal with in a lifetime. Why me?

Anyone know of a good support website for grieving parents? I need a lifeline like this.

[This message edited by Angel177 at 9:01 AM, July 3rd (Thursday)]


Me:BS
Him:WH
D-Day Sept. 14/12...R started Dec. 3/12
Together-10 years Married-5 years
Daughter-4
Son-13 months (died July 2, 2014)
Son-born Jan. 2015
4 month EA and 4 month EA/PA in 2012 with my "friend"

Posts: 255 | Registered: Oct 2012
Kalleigh
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Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss, I will be sending my prayers


I love my husband and kids, but there is something missing, LIKE MAYBE A LIFE!!!!!!!

Posts: 6517 | Registered: Mar 2003 | From: Wisconsin
GabyBaby
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Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG Angel!!!
I'm so sorry. ((( Angel and DS )))

Do you have family/friends nearby for support?


Me - 42
DD(21), DS(19, PDD-NOS)

STBX WH#2 - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Together 7, married 4yrs
Since DDay, he's drunk by 5pm.
Status - F that guy.

XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 7060 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, Angel! I am so very sorry.

The Compassionate Friends is a support organization for parents grieving the loss of their child. You can find them here - http://www.compassionatefriends.org/home.aspx


You can call me NIK

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön


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Tred
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Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Angel, I am so sorry. I don't have any experience with this, but I'm sure someone will come along soon.

My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 4283 | Registered: Dec 2011
tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh god. I'm so very sorry.
(((((((((((Angel and family))))))))))


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4956 | Registered: Jan 2012
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my God. I am so so sorry. There are just no words.

This community helped a friend of mine after she lost her baby:

http://www.glowinthewoods.com/

I'm so sorry for your loss.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 5-year-old daughter. Baby Green 2.0 expected June 2015!!!!!!!!!

Posts: 7271 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Angel....oh I'm so sorry.

There are no words.

I'm so sorry.

(((((((((Angel)))))))))))


Posts: 3446 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
cayc
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Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Angel)))


"I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship." - Louisa May Alcott

Posts: 3346 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
windows
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Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for you.

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Angel and Family)))

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine.

Sending lots of strength and support your way.


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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 9:21 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry hun. ((((Angel & DS)))


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

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yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so very sorry for you loss. There are no words.

((((((((((Angel & DS))))))))))


"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

Posts: 2894 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
What2Do76
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Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you.


D-Day 11/20/10
Love Is Not Constantly Wondering If You Are Making the Biggest Mistake of Your Life

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imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Angel177))))

I don't even know what to say, I'm sorry doesn't seem to cover it.


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


Posts: 5721 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland
TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Angel177))))

So, so, sorry.


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 22028 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh honey!!! I am so sorry!!! (((Angel)))


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 6079 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Angel and family)))


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry Angel.

((((((Angel & family))))))


Broken crayons still color.

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so terribly sorry


"79% of stair accidents happen on the stairs"..Gumball Watterson

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