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User Topic: Withholding
heyjules2012
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Stop  Posted: 11:05 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Haven't been here in a while but have something new going on. Let me explain:
Our d-day was 1-1/2 years ago. One of our issues was (he felt) intimacy. I never withheld sex from him but wasn't into it as much as I could've. We did expirience hysterical bonding which really awakened me! OK I get it now and now he seems to be withholding from me! We are less active than even during his affair. When I mention this he thinks that I'm using sex to make sure we are OK and that's not it at all!! It's starting to really hurt because I think wow he hasn't even touched me besides good bye pecks in 3 days!! What do you guys think?

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BS(me)38 WH(him)38
D-Day 12/1/12
Together 15, married 11
Trying to R

Posts: 28 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: WI
DrJekyll
♂ 43618
Member # 43618
Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

heyjules

Your post is going to get pulled, BS can't start a thread in wayward. I think that you will get a lot of comments on this, I might recommend reposting this in general. And encourage WS answers.

on to advice. have you approached as to why he has less MOJO? without being accusatory or defensive?


A wound can be stitched shut, but it decides when it will heal on its own.

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

I do not PM with Women


Posts: 1052 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Midwest
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are you sure he's not back in the A?

Is he on ADs?


"You give me that bottom of the 9th, last at bat, tied game, grand slam, full of butterflies kind of feeling." - My Husband

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6782 | Registered: Nov 2011
DrJekyll
♂ 43618
Member # 43618
Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

reposted in Reconciliation

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=535156


A wound can be stitched shut, but it decides when it will heal on its own.

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

I do not PM with Women


Posts: 1052 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Midwest
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Red  Posted: 1:45 PM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BSs are not to start threads in the Wayward Forum. Please review the forum descriptions.

Thank you.


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