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User Topic: questions you don't want to be asked right after drinking water
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 1:06 AM, July 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mom...... what's masturbation?

I admit, I used the water to take an extra breath.

My answer made the 10 year old gag, and wince. Does that mean I answered it right?


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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Violated
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Default  Posted: 2:02 AM, July 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG I remember those days! Sounds like you answered right.

My ds used to ask me things like that while I was driving and he was sitting behind me. I was so glad he couldn't see my face


Divorced 10/2013

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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 2:15 AM, July 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I followed my explanation with "did you get this from your brother/brother's friend?" (all four boys spent time together today.)

DS stammered yes, NO! why?

Which led to me saying half to myself, "because they are the right age to be talking about such stuff or even doing it.... but that is something you do in private! Well it should be, although I have heard of boys "racing" or some such ..."

DS looks HORRIFIED. And he says, "I am going to go throw up now."

ah, boys...


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:05 AM, July 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad he was comfortable asking you. I think my face would have been pink.

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, July 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He might be a little young yet to hear about "Circle Jerks".

My ex told me of this ritual, even tho the boys weren't gay they would sit in a circle and "jerk" each other off... I guess it's more fun with someone else's hand then your own...

I've not heard of "Racing" yet. (Thank God)


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, July 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, shit. Glad I wasn't drinking water when I opened this thread!!!!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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Feelthrownaway
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, July 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I picked my son up after a boyscout campout.He was also ten. His first question was "what is spank your monkey"? I believe if he is old enough to ask then he is old enough to be told..though only enough for his age . I explained what it was and other terms to call it. He thought it was funny. He repeated them over and over. My husband was mortified that I told him. I didn't expect him to ask me then so I would have choked if I had been drinking :)


BW- 48
FWH-49
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 23 years- together 25

What doesn't kill me, scars me.


Posts: 1249 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Down South
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 12:37 AM, July 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I believe if he is old enough to ask then he is old enough to be told.

I believe this too.

It helped me that my first child was born with a scientific view of the world. He watched a lot of discovery channel and NatGeo. His questions seemed to demand a very factual response with the proper terminology.

I don't know but "spank your monkey" might have caused me to giggle...


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, July 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

and "jerk" each other off.
uh, um, not so sure about that jrc, I was always under the assumption that they jerked themselves off, not someone else. Yikes! Better go ask that question in the menz thread jrc, (if you can get anyone to answer it, lol!)


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 34 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
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Feelthrownaway
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, July 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I googled it :)

A circle jerk is a sexual practice in which a group of men or boys form a circle and masturbate themselves or each other.


BW- 48
FWH-49
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 23 years- together 25

What doesn't kill me, scars me.


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persevere
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Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, July 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Circle Jerks - wasn't that an 80's band? Wow - I never knew that's what it meant.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

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Posts: 4715 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, July 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I googled it :)

You are brave. I have this idea that my computer looks disapprovingly at me. But "google" is my favorite verb.

Of course, my mom would tell me to call the library. I did once, and the lady wrote down my question and my phone number and said she would "get back to me." She did in a few days but her answer wasn't very satisfying. Pre-google era: someday it will be an actual era, similar to prehistoric.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

uh, um, not so sure about that jrc

Well... I got it straight from the source... My ex apparently participated in this activity as a teen and he said in his group... they jerked off the guy next to you.

How other "circles" worked, I have no idea...


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was always under the assumption that they jerked themselves off, no.t someone else

Me, too. Have I had this wrong my whole life???????


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

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