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 delia1980 (original poster new member #43971) posted at 4:00 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

Hello everyone, Im a new member to SI and Im soo relieved to have found people who have experienced the same or similar hurt I have (even a yr later)

Im real confused though. Im seeing posts where people are using abbreviations for themselves and their spouse, other man/woman, etc.

Can someone please maybe give me a list of those abbreviations?

I feel silly but I really want to tell my story.

Thank you!!

33 F
Lesbian
Fiancee 28
DD:6/2013

.."Sometimes we have to accept the apologizes we've never gotten...

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misskirby ( member #34594) posted at 4:02 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

Hi Delia. Welcome, and I'm sorry you find yourself needing to be here. There is an extensive list of abbreviations over in the Healing Library. That yellow box over to the left? Click on the Healing Library, and then at the top of that page, click on Abbreviations. Hope that helps.

Me-BS, Late 20's
Him-WH, Late 20's
M 9 years, together 14
DS and DD
D-Day 1/16/12

"Long is the way And hard, that out of Hell leads up to Light" -John Milton, Paradise Lost

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Schadenfreude ( member #43075) posted at 4:05 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

Go to Healing Library which is above dr. Phil's face I. Yellow box

Go to FAQ

Go to abbreviations

Take no doze or drink lots of coffee.

You aren't requires to use abbreviations, but it does become natural.

Be careful,to post in the proper sub forum. If you just learned, JFO. If you are the cheater, Wayward. Etc. Or you will be chastised. Beware of stop signs, too, on the far left of thread titles.

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yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 4:08 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

Hi Delia. Very sorry you are here but welcome to SI. You are going to get hit with a lot of abbreviations here. You can find most of the abbreviations in the upper left corner in the Healing Library. Please check that section out here.

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/library.asp

I'm going to hit you with the full suite of newbie threads so that you have them.

180 BS FAQ here which is designed for you to detach if you need to.

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_bs.asp#FAQ11

And more 180 info under the target thread here:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=232785

I would also recommend reading these target threads in the Just Found Out forum:

Tactical Primer

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=235051

Great Posts for Newbies to Read

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=361740

Boundaries and Consequences 101 for all new BS

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=385631

Before You Say Reconcile...

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=406548

For the foggy, unremorseful, cake eaters:

20/20 Hindsight: What I should have done when I J F O

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid

Keep posting. We are here for you.

yop

"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 4:16 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

Welcome Delia

The others have posted links to a whole lot of information. I would encourage you to read some but not be afraid to just put any questions you have out here.

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 delia1980 (original poster new member #43971) posted at 7:41 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

Thank you misskirby, schadenfreude, yearsofpain25 and movingupward. The info was very helpful. Im happy to be welcomed. I didnt just find out, but it consumes much of my thoughts a year later. Ughh

33 F
Lesbian
Fiancee 28
DD:6/2013

.."Sometimes we have to accept the apologizes we've never gotten...

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MrsDoubtfire ( member #24786) posted at 11:39 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

Delia- if you don't feel confident with the abbrevs just yet then don't use them. Long hand is okay and the healing library has a list you can refer to when receiving replies on here.

Also- don't be worried... soon those abbreviations will be second nature to you

BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now become†

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