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User Topic: Need help finding a support group
♀ 43064
Member # 43064
Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, July 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is there any kind of group that is not divorce care but a group for those of us that are not quite in R and not quite heading to D or S. A group that meets in person. I guess a group that would be similar to a divorce care type thing but for those of us that don't know yet if we are going to R, S or D?

Him: WS, 51 EA/PA 2 years
D Day 3/10/14 N/C broke (phone/email) 6/14-10/14
Me: BS 52
OW: Banana Republic whore
Status: R or D Praying for answers
Betrayal: so painful it should be a crime - 12 months in prison.

Posts: 267 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: State of Distrust
♀ 30143
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Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, July 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You might look for a BAN (Beyond Affairs Network) in your area. I attend monthly and it's a huge help.

Me (BW) (55), Him(SAWH) (58)
Married 22 years, 1 son (19), 1 stepdaughter (27)
DDay #1 January 2004
DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)
Working on R

Posts: 1622 | Registered: Nov 2010
♀ 14660
Member # 14660
Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, July 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I too have attended BAN meeting. Very supportive weather you stay or divorce. Just helping you get through situations.

Their website and the book Ann Bercht wrote are also good. The book is called My Husbands Affair the Beat Thing That Happened To Me. One of the best books I have read and can relate to.

Me: BS-56
Him: WS-56
Married: 36 years
Divorced: 11-17-15
DD 36, DD 26, DS 23, DD 20
You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.

Posts: 308 | Registered: May 2007 | From: Ohio
Topic Posts: 3

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