Im divorced and now dating and fairly happy about it. I mean dating isn't the best, but its a new chapter and im finally ready. However, I find that Ill have periods where I have these thoughts about xh. I wonder if the cheating was because our sex life was so mundane. (Background he cheated with multiple ppl, he said it wasn't physical with most, just on the phone but im sure that's a lie). Anyway what are your thoughts. I just start to wonder if maybe I did this or that sexually, things would've turned out different. But then I think, well it was 5 women and they apparently they couldn't satisfy him either.
Hmm, I will be glad when these thoughts stop completely.
[This message edited by tryin2bhappy at 10:12 AM, July 5th (Saturday)]
Divorce filed 1/2/14
Divorce Final 3/24/14
Moving right along, whether I want to or not