Topic: Please think happy thoughts for me & wh
Member # 27325
| Posted: 7:23 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014|
My wh has a job interview tomorrow. If he gets this job, it would mean great things for us..
When he started his a (5 years ago!) he'd just gotten a new job, making a good salary. He had graduated grad school and taken the first job he was offered four years before, which was great learning experience, but not great salary. The job that he met ow at was that great salary job, with added responsibilities from his first , entry level job.
Well, he royally screwed that up with a workplace affair topped off with drug abuse.
He got fired, went to another office, got fired from
There. It took him years to get his career back to starting point(he's making as much as he was at that first job he left. He's low man at the office now)
If he gets this job tomorrow, it's fantastic about the money ( the affair ruined our finances... Divorce, ow is a compulsive shopper , etc). But also, I'll feel like we are really R. Wh will have cleaned up all the mess he made with the A.
The A hurt us financially , and wh career wise. If he can get this job, the A will truly be a memory. We can buy a house, put down roots... Be in the place where we were when he stared his A, before he threw everything away
So please... Think happy thoughts for him tomorrow. It's not just a job :)
Posts: 1668 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 36813
| Posted: 7:31 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014|
I'll keep my fingers crossed for him! This sounds like a great chance at a new beginning and you deserve it! :)
Posts: 294 | Registered: Sep 2012
Member # 38044
| Posted: 7:40 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014|
Just said a specific prayer for you both.
A's cost more than can ever be tallied...I pray for your financial peace and that peace is a stronghold from which you both can go forth and make peace in the other areas in your life affected by adultery and addictions.
God is with us all.
ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred.
Posts: 5387 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
Member # 41741
| Posted: 7:59 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014|
Happy thoughts coming your way...
Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS early 40s (lovemywife4ever)
He cheated before M, forgot to tell me, D
"Free at last, free at last, thank God Almighty we are free at last" - MLK Jr
Posts: 1921 | Registered: Dec 2013
Member # 31528
| Posted: 8:04 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014|
Sending happy thoughts and mojo.
Posts: 42094 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 20150
| Posted: 9:36 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014|
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 18739 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Member # 31240
| Posted: 10:00 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014|
Count me in.
fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 70 (22 in my head), Married 45+, together since 1965, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.
Posts: 12155 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Member # 43595
| Posted: 12:49 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014|
If he can get this job, the A will truly be a memory. We can buy a house, put down roots... Be in the place where we were when he stared his A, before he threw everything away.
I know how it feels when you want something soooo bad because it becomes a turning point in your life. I will pray and hope for the best.
Good luck to both of you!
"Life is too short for shitty sex and bad relationships. So go find someone who fucks you right and treats you how you
deserve to be treated!"
BS: me WS: him M:12 yrs T:23 yrs (3kids <10) DDay: 12/3/2013 OW#1- 2 1/2 yr A; OW#2-2mths
Posts: 101 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: USA
Member # 35812
| Posted: 1:29 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014|
Many happy thoughts and much mojo!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 6316 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Member # 41920
| Posted: 1:50 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014|
((Gottagetthrough)) best wishes for you both. To have made it this far means you're both strong people.
M 20 years
Posts: 1349 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
Member # 27325
| Posted: 9:07 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014|
Thank you all so
Much. I really love this site & all of the support. To have you all understand what this job means ... Indescribable.
I haven't told wh how much this job means to me... That would be too much pressure. But to be able to tell you all and have you understand means so mucch.
[This message edited by Gottagetthrough at 9:07 PM, July 6th (Sunday)]
Posts: 1668 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 31349
| Posted: 9:29 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014|
Sending the happiest of thoughts for a good outcome!
Nothing ever goes away until is has taught us everything we need to know. - Pema Chodron
Posts: 24949 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 33772
| Posted: 11:07 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014|
Happy thoughts coming your way !
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 24 years- together 26
What doesn't kill me, scars me.
Posts: 1682 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Down South
Member # 35846
| Posted: 11:10 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014|
Hoping for good news when you find out!
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
We have R'd
Posts: 3988 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
Member # 29295
| Posted: 2:57 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014|
Add me to the list of sending positive vibes - I really hope he gets the job.
...second star to the right and straight on till morning.
Posts: 2193 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
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