Have you talked to a L? In most jurisdictions you can't deny him access to his kid, so tread carefully. On the other hand, if he's out of the house and you're separated, even temporarily, you probably shouldn't let him back in. What if he decides not to leave?
You should, like others said, have him pick him up and drop off in a public place, where he will behave. He's of course guilty and liable for any "accidents" that occur, and if he has a hard time, so be it.
In most states, in most countries, he will get some custody. Children need both their parents - whatever happens to the marriage. I would not fight to prevent him from being a father. Do not fight over children - do not do that. Don't - unless he really is unsafe - and that is not what you describe here.
Your child needs a father - even if he is a lying jerk.
I do not agree with this statement at all. No child needs a father that is a liar and a jerk. Period.
I know. I'm sorry. It's not what you want to hear, but it is the truth. Unless he is a criminal, addict, or a drunk, the chances of you being able to stop him from spending time alone with th child are zilch.
There are many moms on the divorce forum who don't want their kids near their fathers..but have no choice. Even the sexual deviant fathers get visits..unsupervised with their kids.
I'm sorry. It's a shitty position to be in.
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
When another woman takes your husband,
sometimes the best thing you can do for
yourself is to LET HER HAVE the worthless
OC born 2001
Remarried 2008 (New Guy)