There's so many things unfair about this shit...
But I am really surprised how many betrayed husbands here feel like they don't have a choice about custody. Your wife isn't focused on the kids, she's having a fucking affair! Taking time away from her FAMILY for sex and ego stroking.
Do YOU have your priorities in the right place? Well then take charge and figure out how to be a single dad! Kids learn by seeing. They SEE how their parents act, so it's more important now than ever for you to SHOW them how healthy people handle themselves. Be a role model for them!
No WAY in fucking hell was I giving up custody to my ex. And the sad part is, he was too busy focused on his whore to fight for them. Thank God my kids spend most of their time with the parent that was focused on them all along..