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User Topic: The Karma bus is a rollin'
♀ 35862
Member # 35862
Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

During the A, one of H friends knew, but didn't say anything or try to tell H to get his head together and stop. H said friends only comment was "I can't judge you." Needless, to say he and H are not buddies now.

So we were sitting with someone who knows "friend" last night and it was mentioned that his wife cheated on him. My first thought was I wonder if he's going to "judge" his wife for cheating.

Me: BS H: WS
4 kids
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

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♀ 20547
Member # 20547
Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ha! While I'd like to say "I don't wish that on ANYBODY." I'd be lying. I wish it on people like that.

FBS/WS- me.
BS/FWS- him.
DDay 6/07 (immediately separated)
RDay 8/07
His OC born 2008/Adopted 2014

My Affair: 2015
Status: trying to pick up the pieces.

Posts: 2529 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: PNW
♀ 42654
Member # 42654
Default  Posted: 12:44 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. People really are so detached from the pain BSs go through as the result of an A. I wish there was a way for society as a whole to somehow get a glimpse into how devastating it really is. I hope someone writes a best selling book or a screenplay that portrays the lives of 3 or 4 WS/BSs and accurately depicts the nightmare and the emotional dungeon we are thrown in. I, for one, would like the world to know (as much as is possible).

H: 50
Dday #1 Oct 2007 (Porn for 2 yrs)
Dday #2 May 2013 (Porn for 5 more yrs))
Dday#3 May 2014 (finally admitted to drunk kissing OW in 1994: the 2nd drunken kiss with another woman during our M)
DD 22 and DS 18
Married 1993

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