While shooting off fireworks two scantily clad young you g girls walked by. Maybe hubby took a quick glance or none at all, not sure. But SIL said to me "hey she's checking out your husband." And "now he's checking out her." I didn't think he did but simply her saying that sunk me. For about a half hour. Had she known our story I doubt she would joke about things like that. Our other friends and family do not.
I told hubby later, that it hurt, and he handled the trigger fine. I suppose telling her everything and having whatever ensue is weighed more heavily than her side stepping what could trigger us .
It sucks though. Anyone else deal with this?
[This message edited by rachelc at 6:47 PM, July 6th (Sunday)]
me (WW/BS): 48
4 kiddos in mid 20's
“Most things will be okay eventually, but not everything will be. Acceptance is a small, quiet room.”
Everyone knows about my husband's A...lemme tell ya, it doesn't stop people from saying A related "jokes".
Have you considered sharing more with those you trust?
Our close friends know..,,
I still have issues watching any TV show, reading a book, seeing commercials, anything that deals with A's.
[This message edited by thecosmogirl at 8:51 PM, July 6th (Sunday)]
D-day 14 June 2013
I'm smart, good looking and gosh darn it, people like me!