Everyone knows except my mother. Because she is a wench. She has spent my entire adult life belittling my relationships. If I had a boyfriend she would ask him just how long did he think he could put up with me. If I didn't have a boyfriend she would ask what I did to run the last one off. She told me to stay with my mentally abusive, serial cheating ex because "It could be worse, at least he has a job." << exact quote!
If she found out she would tell me I must've made him do it. Because I'm so hard to live with.
She stopped by for lunch last week. Didn't take her long to look at my WH and say "You're such a nice guy, why do you put up with her."
I slammed my iPad, got up and walked out. I heard her say "I guess you're leaving" as I left through the back door.
Good news on that little scene is my WH was actually nice. Wonders never cease but, maybe he understood why that triggered me so bad. We both got in his truck and he held my hand and told me he loved me and that I was beautiful. Small potatoes but, better than what he has been doing lately, which is a bland "I'm here." With no emotion.
[This message edited by thecosmogirl at 8:51 PM, July 6th (Sunday)]
Him: doesn't matter anymore
D-day 14 June 2013
I'm smart, good looking and gosh darn it, people like me!