While shooting off fireworks two scantily clad young you g girls walked by. Maybe hubby took a quick glance or none at all, not sure. But SIL said to me "hey she's checking out your husband." And "now he's checking out her." I didn't think he did but simply her saying that sunk me. For about a half hour. Had she known our story I doubt she would joke about things like that. Our other friends and family do not.
I told hubby later, that it hurt, and he handled the trigger fine. I suppose telling her everything and having whatever ensue is weighed more heavily than her side stepping what could trigger us .
It sucks though. Anyone else deal with this?
[This message edited by rachelc at 6:47 PM, July 6th (Sunday)]
me (WW/BS): 48
4 kiddos in mid 20's
“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”
Everyone knows about my husband's A...lemme tell ya, it doesn't stop people from saying A related "jokes".
Have you considered sharing more with those you trust?
Our close friends know..,,
I still have issues watching any TV show, reading a book, seeing commercials, anything that deals with A's.
[This message edited by thecosmogirl at 8:51 PM, July 6th (Sunday)]
Being very, very careful
D-day 14 June 2013
I'm smart, good looking and gosh darn it, people like me!