So last year me and my wife for 7 years almost split up after she told me she had fallen for a guy she talked with online, well after weeks of talking about it and discussing things she tells me she will not leave me because of the kids and because of the promise she made when she married me.
So we moved on and everything seemed fine, and we talked about moving back to my old country Norway because i have family here and we could start fresh and build on our marriage.
So we start planning, i leave my job for 9 years, cash out my retirement, sell everything we have and buy tickets and pack down our life into 2 large suitcases each......
We get to Norway and we start planning....Suddenly after 2 weeks here, she tells me the guy she almost left me for had met her and flown from the Netherlands where he is from to Ohio to be with her..they had sex and i of course didn't know...and she told me he had bought her and our oldest kid (Not mine biologicly, but still cared for) plane tickets to come and live with him,,,the youngest one our 8 year old is with me.....and i told my wife she will not be around him.
So right now i am sitting here mad and angry and trying to figure out what i am going to do, i have return tickets and money left to go back to the US where i know i will get custody for our youngest because my wife has been in Mental institutions many times.......
Any ideas on what i should be doing first?