His mom said she wanted to.slap him, his dad said he couldn't believe it and was pissed.
So they know our issues....
Today, we're sitting, chatting about fb and his dad starts talking about all of my husbands friends from hs that he found.
He mentions this gorgeous chick that my hubby liked in grammar school and hs....and how she "looks like an actress" etc
So I get my blood boiling and say "he should date her.....fb is the relationship killer.......so why not? Plus, she's loaded!!!"
Fuckin pissed me off!!!!!
[This message edited by Raspberry at 9:27 PM, July 6th (Sunday)]
Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16
Annnnnd...just had another blowout with wh. F him.
Maybe in the future, you can let them know when they bring up something that crosses the line or makes you uncomfortable. You can simply say, "given what you know has happened, I think that's a really inappropriate and hurtful thing to say"?!?
DDay 1 - 1/13, False Recovery Discovered more + Broken NC so DDay2= 7/14
9/9/14: filed for divorce
BW: 42 (me)
WH: 40 (him)
I agree FB and technology in general is killing many relationships. I long for the days of 1 phone in the household with a long cord on it.
Now we have secret burner phones, Whats app, Vonage app and many others that allow the WS to keep in easy contact with OW/OM. I know cheating went on in the 50's and the 60's but now it is so "convenient" to cheat and for that we can thank TECHNOLOGY.
Porn sites open 24/7 in the comfort of your own home, what more can a cheater ask for? You can get what you want anytime, any place and very often keep it SECRET from your LOYAL spouse. Yes - thank you technology for making all of our lives so convenient and EASY. It is now EASY to be an "EASY" person.
So one night when I had too much wine and was fighting with my husband about his sexcapades with hookers,
So why do you think itís a good idea to talk about relationship issues when drunk?
I talk to him about it alllll the time about it. I'm saying that the day I had too much wine, I called his parents and went off.
I would have never done that but I flipped out bc as much as he's telling me, I still feel like he's withholding info.
[This message edited by Raspberry at 6:29 PM, July 7th (Monday)]
I have thought long and hard about spilling the beans to my MIL. I have not done it yet but deep down feel she should know what her son as done to me. In-laws can paint a picture of how great their kids are it can make you sick when you know the secret of what the truth is and they don't.
I think it is good you told them and it does not matter the circumstances which it was under.
His parents never mentioned it to him (about what he did etc) so they've pretty much rug swept it. Not me though...everyday gets harder and harder.
I'm starting to think that I'll never recover. And what sucks is, going forward, I believe ill always be cheated on, so I'd rather be alone. *cries*
This is absolutely awful.