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Tesa posted 7/7/2014 09:30 AM

I woke up three times last night in the middle of a dream about OW. 3 times in the same dream. Does it ever stop??

Stample posted 7/7/2014 09:40 AM

I dreamt of OW a few times.
I remember my last dream of her: she was sitting on a bed, being very nice to me and I sucker punched her, but then I was afraif that she files a report so I was trying to be nice to her... After punching her.

hopefull77 posted 7/7/2014 10:38 AM

No dreams of her what so ever...thank GOD!
I do wish I could have seen her the moment she got thrown under the bus though!

Deeply Scared posted 7/7/2014 10:39 AM

You guys...

If you continue to use this as a vent thread, we're going to be forced to move it to General.

The original author posted in the Recon forum for a reason, please respect it.

rachelc posted 7/7/2014 10:43 AM

I dream about potential other women... ugh.

Tesa posted 7/7/2014 14:26 PM

Perhaps it is related to 'A' season or that she hasn't contacted H in 4 months? (last contact was a blocked call to inform him that she bought a house, with her post A-husband and baby. He has since changed his number and magically the phone calls appeared to have stopped).

The dream was of past events.

It's hard to let go when my own subconscious pulls me back in. Now, today, I'm stuck in the past, mentally replaying those months.

I am not the type to look for deep meaning in my dreams however, I do see that often my dreams are "wake up calls" for things happening now. But, these were dreams of the past?

[This message edited by Tesa at 2:30 PM, July 7th (Monday)]

Hrtbrken1 posted 7/7/2014 17:31 PM

Tesa, that's a good question. Right after DDay I dreamed of her at least once a week. Sometimes more. As the years have gone by, it's been less frequent. It still happens, but they're not the body-freezing nightmares I use to have. It's more of a "oh, it's blah-blah". She's just another person who shows up. I don't have the dreams when I'm triggered, it was always a bit of a shock to have them for no reason (besides, you know, the whole cheating thing ). I no longer fear she'll be showing up in them any longer, as opposed to 2 or 3 years ago when I would dread bedtime.

courageouscat posted 7/8/2014 00:45 AM

I get it Tesa. It's always surprising to me when this happens. I had a dream about OW out of the blue just a couple of days ago. It's not the same as mind movies. It's usually just some random dream with OW in it. For me, the dreams always have her on the edges of our life...in a rented house or room...just visiting or trying to weasel in. I usually tell her to go away and she says something nasty to me or she or H says that she is sticking around for awhile. It usually is related to affair season or a time of the year when it is possible I could run in to her. For me, it's just my brain trying to work something out.

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