We didn't do MC. My H (the FWS) didn't do IC either. I only went to an IC for a few months sort of as a "paid friend." I was not looking for anybody else to tell us how to live our lives, and I was quite sure if there was any possibility of figuring things out, learning from past mistakes, etc, we'd do it on our own.
I made it very clear to my H that he could shape to hell up or ship to hell out, without much in between. I was actually quite shocked that he chose the former and we are still together, closer than ever 8 years later.
[This message edited by Bobbi_sue at 3:37 AM, July 8th (Tuesday)]