My WS liked the ego boost of playing the KISA role with OW. He saved her from her "neglectful" husband and listened to her talk about her problems for hours, etc. etc.
I never was that needy. I never had a whole lot of problems before this! (minus medical stuff that I didn't want to dwell on)
Now when I want to talk about the A, and when I let him know how hurt I am from it....it seems to turn him on. It's weird and it's not what I need from him. I don't think he's getting turned on by thoughts of his AP, I wonder if it's another opportunity to play KISA that does it. Anyone have something similar?