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Blanket (original poster member #43881) posted at 3:14 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
My H is finally out of the fog and although he doesn't often wish to talk about the A, he does constantly want to spend time with me. I question all the time whether he loves me even though he says he does a hundred times a day. But if he did surely he wouldn't want to spend time with me so that's a good sign , right?
D day 20th may 2014
Me -BS (33)
HIM- WS (35)
OW- 18 yr old COW
Together 7 years, married 1
I can't tell if it's killing me or making me stronger
Don't kick me when I'm down because when I get back up you are f****d!
soccermom9 ( member #43805) posted at 3:18 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
It sounds like he is being sincere! Don't be afraid to ask for space while you evaluate his sincerity and actions to determine if you can continue to put things back together.
Me: 44
WH: 43
Dday: 6-20-14
He admitted to drunken sex at massage parlor!
Attempting reconciliation
TheIrishGirl ( member #43496) posted at 6:25 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
I think it sounds good. Out of the fog is good. Saying he loves you is good. Wanting time together is good.
Just make sure he lets you talk about the A as needed- pretty sure no WS wants to talk about it- it's awful, it's embarrassing, it's hurtful, it's wrong and they know it- but they need to be willing to do it as much as their BS needs it. And their willingness to do so demonstrates some remorse.
Me: 33, BW Him: 40, fWH
Together 11y, married 8
2 children (ours) 7/11 & 3/14
D-day 4/18/14 I saw his 'other' email
Working on R, and it's working
funnyguy ( member #43192) posted at 8:04 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
I think it's good, but always be careful, mine WW doesn't say she loves at all. she mentioned a vacation together but thats it. I said no to the vacation.ask me to do a few other things first then maybe .
[This message edited by funnyguy at 2:05 PM, July 9th (Wednesday)]
Sunnydaysahead ( member #43756) posted at 8:09 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
Sounds like forward progress!!! I think it is wonderful he wants to spend time with you. Best of luck on your R!!!
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