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Faithful w/Love posted 7/9/2014 10:04 AM

Well I am finally in my condo. Life is going okay. A little strange that I am place in this situation for the second go around but I am in acceptance and peace with it.
Is it normal that I haven't cried or felt a lose of anything? Maybe, it is because I have been a roller coaster for 5 long years and this is just a little piece of salvation for me.
Wh and I are getting along, I have no anger, self pity, sadness, it is what it is. Maybe it has not hit me yet or maybe I have had enough been through enough. I am moving on with getting to know me again and enjoying it. I like the feeling of not having all the drama in my face, I feel in control of myself again and my life. Like a weight has been lifted and that I belong where I am wanted. In my own home. (sounds strange huh).

I want to thank you all for all the wise advice, standing behind me all these years with a 2x4 in hand when I needed it.

I don't know what the future holds for myself but I know the past will not keep me hostage either, so it is one day at a time for me, counting all my blessings, and thanking God that I made through again.

WeepingBuddhist posted 7/9/2014 11:35 AM

So glad you are settling into your new place and embracing the future!

Faithful w/Love posted 7/9/2014 11:53 AM

Thank weeping,
Its been a draining 5 years to say the least.

ButterflyGirl posted 7/9/2014 12:33 PM

Faithful w/Love posted 7/9/2014 13:03 PM

Thank you butterflygirl! You were a huge help to me with your advice.

ButterflyGirl posted 7/9/2014 13:23 PM

Aww, thanks girl!

You have on idea how much you've helped me with your advice, too. Just even seeing you respond to other posts, I just know how strong and brave you are.

I hope God blesses you with many awesome things in your future!

nowiknow23 posted 7/9/2014 14:56 PM

Is it normal that I haven't cried or felt a lose of anything? Maybe, it is because I have been a roller coaster for 5 long years and this is just a little piece of salvation for me.
Perfectly normal. Especially after a false R. You've done the grind, you've given everything you could. And you know you are done.

Congrats on the new place, hon.

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