Just before I found out about the A, WH had bought some nice clothes. I enjoyed seeing him in them, especially in the shirt that was my favorite color.
Then I found out he wore them to look good for OW & later that she had been shopping with him when he bought them. I was so disappointed.
Even so, I still asked him to wear them a few times when we were going out. He looked so fine in those clothes! His attractiveness made my desire for him grow even deeper.
As time went on, I started to resent the fact that he had bought them to look nice for her. Every time he wore them I would either get mad or feel sorry for myself. I believed he thought ĎI wasnít good enough to buy nice clothes for.í Eventually I told him how I felt. He quit wearing them. I told him I wanted them gone. He said OK & I dropped them at a local charity place. He would have but I was driving past there and did it before he had the chance to do it himself.
Recently he ordered a shirt online, he showed it to me before he did. I even said thatís nice you look so good in that color. When it came I was surprised that it stirred up those feelings of resentment and anger. Iím hoping I can get past it soon and appreciate how good it looks on him.