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MindMonkey (original poster member #41679) posted at 7:42 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014
Ok,
Obviously didn't want to post on the sister thread but I gotta ask: Do you guys even care what your W is covering up? The fact that they are in a bathing suit pretty much means we're gonna see more flesh than normal so that's pretty great, right.
My W is always picking out her flaws and pointing them out to me. Sure I notice them (after she points them out) and don't find cellulite attractive. I'd lie if I said I did. But the thing is, I'm not looking at the cellulite because there is something else (actually quite a few things) I'm distracted by. It's a guys nature. We look at things that we like, not things we don't.
I'm of the opinion that every woman has something sexy about them (most of them a lot of things) that counters a complaint they have.
What's your go to counter attack?
I always act like I didn't hear and say I was thinking about if we had enough time for a quicky before we hit the pool (all the while staring at her hind end). Then for a bonus, I "adjust" myself as if I was "taming" a chubby.
BH, 35, CoD, Military...sober since 6/17/14
FWW, EA/PA (x2) different OM coworkers
Reconciling since 8/1/13
100% ready to file at next dealbreaker...don't test me.
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