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I thought you hit a low last fall when you harassed me about long-settled financial matters while my Mom was in hospice and I was on my way to sit by her deathbed. I mean, that was pretty damn low.

So now that Mom's gone and Dad is in the same palliative care boat, I was absolutely stunned to receive a blistering phone call from you, yelling at me about a debt collection phone call you received from RandomCreditor. You, of course, immediately blamed me and called demanding to know why I haven't paid them.

Really, Wasband? You couldn't check your copy of the agreement before calling me? The agreement that clearly assigned RandomCreditor to YOU? You couldn't even muster an "Oh, sorry" after I read the agreement to you?

Nope. Couldn't bother to apologize for the mistake or even acknowledge it for that matter. Just a "click" and a dead line. I guess that put me in my place. Hanging up on someone else shows just how AWESOME you are.

Too awesome for me, in fact. So why don't you hand this letter over to your wife and step back so the grown ups can speak, mkay?

Mrs. Wasband? I think the poor muffin needs a time out so he can reflect on his choices. Please emphasize to him that he should use his words next time.

Also, one last favor? Could you ask him to pretty please PAY HIS FUCKING BILLS and leave me out of it?!!! Much appreciated.

-NIK

Seriously, dude better never be near me and a folding chair.

It's amazing how a little responsibility sends douschebags scattering.

Well, at least he spared you any more of your time having to interact with him.

(This was as non-violent and non-profane as I could offer. The hurricane in my head sounds a lot different)

(((NIKelodeon)))

[This message edited by Jrazz at 4:13 PM, July 9th (Wednesday)]

First of all, (((((NIK))))) and (((((NIK's dad)))))

after I read the agreement to you?

I can just imagine him slinking off with his tail between his legs! Good for him, that idiot!

(((Nik)))

Geez, Nik. You expect him to read and everything?

I'm sorry this is what you have to put up with.

Geez, Nik. You expect him to read and everything?

I know, I know. I really expect far too much from him.

(((nik))) I am sorry he still feels he has any right to talk to you in such a manner. You, of course, don't deserve it. 'Cause you are amazing.

So sorry about your dear father, too, nik. That is tough and sad. Peace and serenity to both you and your father.

That guy gives me douchebumps.

(NIK)

FTG and his small balls.
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www.youtube.com/watch?v=SMzXe84VoLs

Douschebumps!!!

Geez, Nik. You expect him to read and everything?

It's like he has VPL of the stupids. I can see his stupid from all the way over here. Put it away, dude!

Whatta jagoff.

Complete douche.

(((Nik))))
I am so sorry you have to deal with such douchebaggery bullshit now. You take care of you and your Dad. Let the Karma Bus squash his over-inflated balls.

(((NIK and Dad))) He just HAS to involve you, doesn't he? And his timing is perfectly calculated. I agree with others, but 'douche' is almost a complement to him and a slam to all preexisting douches to put him in their class.

Hey, at least it didn't cost you anything. Xpos and his L prefer to sue me for such things (covered in the D decree). They have collaborated on it twice now and both times just to have the judge tell them what the decree said, which was exactly what my L responded to their papers. But he did promise me that he would make it cost me as much as he possibly could. Nice to know that he CAN keep a promise!

Also, one last favor? Could you ask him to pretty please PAY HIS FUCKING BILLS and leave me out of it?!!! Much appreciated

(((NIK))) Sorry to hear about your father. I hope he rally's and comes back to full health.
As for douchebag, personally I would have told him to "fuck off and read the damn D agreement papers before harassing me further!"
I bow down to your saintly patience and decorum!

Ugh, what a jerk! Any way that you can either block his calls, or let them go to voicemail so you don't have to deal with his stupid?

He usually is sent to voice mail. We are working on some last minute schedule changes with DD (due to my Dad's state), so there have been several phone calls back and forth over the last few days to arrange coverage for her doctor and therapy appointments.

For the last 2 years of our marriage my XH racked up massive credit card debts without my knowledge. (I thought we were paying them down). He agreed to a 60/40 split at the D but that was the most he would take of our "marital debt". Ugh.

I struggled financially after the D and fell behind on CC payments. When the creditors started calling HIM (still don't know why, I took his name off all my cards) he tried to yell at me and I was just like, whatever dude you did this to me. I have to admit I got a sick little thrill knowing he was being harrassed by creditors. LOL