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soccermom9 posted 7/9/2014 15:55 PM

I am 3 weeks post Dday and already had a vacation planned with my two children and my best friend July 20-25 in Florida. Should I now change that so I can stay and work on Marriage? Or continue with my plans? Will I harm anything either way?

[This message edited by soccermom9 at 6:15 PM, July 9th (Wednesday)]

purplejacket4 posted 7/9/2014 16:53 PM

I assume you mean July and not June,

I went ahead and took a trip the week after d-day and took they opportunity to engage the 180. One day out and fWS was calling begging me to give her another chance.

healingroad posted 7/9/2014 16:56 PM

Need to answer some questions:

* Can you trust him while you're gone? Or will you just worry?
* Would some time apart help relax you?
* Are you getting traction on your R, or just spinning your wheels?
* What will he be doing?
* Can you stay in communication? Can you work on the M while you're apart?
* Would a change of plans be hard on the kids?
* What would you rather do (go or stay)?

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