I thought there might be a chance that his mother would join him. She did, last year. He told me a few months ago when he asked to visit while I was here, that HK would NOT come along. I never even asked about it.
So now I'm pretty sure she is coming. It just makes me mad that he can't do anything without that stupid whore tagging along. It'd be nice if my kids could have just one day alone with their dad. Sigh.
The part that really makes me mad though is that he hast called the kids once since we left over a week ago. He then today demands that he be able to speak to the kids. We've been busy all day and have a birthday party to attend tonight. I asked if we could so it tomorrow instead, he says "it's been over a week. I'd like to speak with my children". Really asshole? You've had all week to talk to them snd now because you've decided you're ready, we are supposed to jump to accommodate you. Fuck you.
I asked if we could so it tomorrow instead
Your first mistake. You should have told him "We're busy. They will call you tomorrow.
It depends on how your decree reads. I would have been inclined to tell him, "We are busy this entire trip. Don't bother coming. You will have your parenting time _____."
Don't let him set the tone. You set it and he dances to your tune.
Tell him you are busy and the kids will call him tomorrow and then hang up. You are giving him control by being overly accommodating.
Unfortunately, we can't have a standard custody schedule. Due to his extensive work travel, he gets the kids 8 days per month. We decide which days he gets them on a month to month basis. The reason why I ok'd him coming to see the kids was because it was the only way he'd let me take them for five weeks out of state. I think it's ridiculous, but it was a small concession to make to get an extended time back home.
He never texted back after I told him she'd call tomorrow, so I guess he's over it.
[This message edited by newlysingle at 9:06 PM, July 9th (Wednesday)]
I don't think HK will have the balls to show up at my mom's house. I'm sure she will be cowering back at the hotel. I don't even like the fact that that nasty whore will be contaminating my hometown.